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How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 12:11:22 AM   
possom


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Status: offline 		Ok, picture this scene

You are bound to a chair, unable to move, and you are forced to watch your Master screw another woman.  Meanwhile, this woman is verbally humiliating you.

This is not a punishment, this is something Master has organised because he wanted to.

How do you feel?
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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 12:15:51 AM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		I would feel happy he let me be part of his experience with her.

Then again, I've been prepared to handle such scenes.  A couple of years ago it would have been painful for me.   Now I think it would be hot.  The thing is, I have trouble seeing how someone other than my Master has the power to humiliate me...it hasn't happened yet; perhaps it will in time.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 12:21:57 AM   
possom


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Status: offline 		So, in your mind, what would the Master's motivation be for wanting to do such a scene?

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 12:35:22 AM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		It pleased him.

It benefited/trained me somehow and he wanted me to have that benefit.

It benefited/trained the girl he was screwing.

All of the above, or something else.

The only thing I need to worry about is that he wants it. I don't need to know his motivation, unless of course he wished to share it.  But like I said, it took a few years to get to this point and (a) I trust my Master explicitely; (b) I am fully secure in my place with him; (c) He knows me inside and out and knows this would not harm me or us.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 12:35:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well since we positivly never ever do not have sex out side us, his motivation would of been to distroy my love and my trust for him, and to disolve our relationship. and to seriously wound me, as he knows those kinds of things would, not the womans actions, but his.
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ORIGINAL: possom

So, in your mind, what would the Master's motivation be for wanting to do such a scene?


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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 1:50:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		i am with you on this Feline
We would be history, i would be gone for ever
Serious hard limit here for both of us.
We are completely monogamous in all aspects of our lives
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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 1:53:53 AM   
possom


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Status: offline 		How would it train and/or benefit you?

How would it train and/or benefit the other girl?

See, when I first heard about this sort of scene, my first thought was ugh, that would be cruel.. but then I thought about it and to be honest I have no idea what my reaction would be until I was put in such situation.

I agree tho that yes you would have to be incredibly secure with your Master to do such a scene to not be 'damaged' by it.

What sort of scenes have you done similar to this?

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 1:56:03 AM   
possom


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Status: offline 		Yes I see what you are saying.. and can absolutely see where you are coming from!

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 3:03:09 AM   
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I do enjoy so much when you post.I am in awe of you and Your Masters relationship. A scene such as that would be painful as well for me- almost crushing. However I have never had a relationship were I was ever prepared for anything like that. I'm sure if I had my feelings would be quite different.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 4:24:09 AM   
starDF


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Status: offline 		I have to say, the most damaging part of the scenerio for me is being humiliated by the other woman.  Verbal humiliation is a limit for me and that part of this would damage me greatly.

As far as Master being with another woman - it would depend on the situation as to how upsetting that would be...if she was part of our family I'd feel better about it than if she were a stranger to me...

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 4:45:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		I wouldn't have an issue with him screwing another in front of me or if he was the one humiliating me.  I get off on humiliation.  I would have an issue with the humiliation coming from her.  I have a hard time with the concept that I am "less" than another woman and that is what I would feel from that even if that source of humiliation was ordered by him.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 5:00:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		I would be  excited to be a part of it, but then I enjoy watching Rob with others, the humilation part I would need to understand a bit more on why  it would be a part of the play  but that is just because  I have self  image issues that are generally taboo when  when we engage in humiliation play....

Same with my Top, it's a thrill watching him with his girls, it's sounds corny but it truley is poetry in motion.  Words are powerful tools, they can be used to  take a person down and build them up at the same time.


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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 5:08:12 AM   
MissyRane


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Status: offline 		Verbal humiliation..not so bad. Screwing somebody else than me? He gets to walk!

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 5:20:00 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I wouldn't have an issue with him screwing another in front of me or if he was the one humiliating me.  I get off on humiliation.  I would have an issue with the humiliation coming from her.  I have a hard time with the concept that I am "less" than another woman and that is what I would feel from that even if that source of humiliation was ordered by him.



That was my first thought when I read the OP's post. There is no way I would sit and let someone other woman humilate me while she is screwing my dom. I suppose that is the reason for being bound to the chair.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 5:31:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		If it was Alandra, I would be turned on, excited and frustrated over only being able to watch.  Of course, I have already asked if he could lock me up in his cage and tie me up in there while he fucks her.

If it was another girl, it could go either way from being incredibly erotic to horribly painful for me.  I struggle emotionally with this aspect of our relationship.

The humiliation part would be tricky.  There have been very few things that I find humiliating and they are not verbal.  I tend to go from getting turned on and excited to feeling degraded.  Most things that people find humiliating just turn me on, so it would be a challenge to find something that is actually humiliating for me.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 6:30:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		I guess if I was in your situation Possom... I would have to believe that what your Master is exposing you too involved a number of  your weakest points. (possibly for your continual growth). From reading various posts above I can see that majority of subs who left feedback feel different aspects of the senario to be situations that would really push us to our limits. How you cope with that in reality, how you deal with that situation and whether you are able to overcome it in the end. How it changes you from then on I would be interested to know... maybe your Master seeks to find out that himself.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 8:01:06 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: possom

Ok, picture this scene

You are bound to a chair, unable to move, and you are forced to watch your Master screw another woman.  Meanwhile, this woman is verbally humiliating you.

This is not a punishment, this is something Master has organised because he wanted to.

How do you feel?

in reality - would never happen

hypothetically - i would be pissed off, jealous, angry, furious, etc - yes i'm that type of person and i wouldn't enjoy the scene even though it was giving Him pleasure. this act would break our committment to each other.


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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 8:13:11 AM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		The whole goddamn reason for bdsm existing is to step outside of the restraints of society and to invent your own from scratch.  For some that is taking something rigid, like gor and adopting it for themselves.  For others, it is exploring, bending, breaking, twisting and just trying things to see where they go.

Most of what we "do" is considered bad by society because society lives in a black and white world.  We don't or at least we don't have to.  I judge an act not by the act but the motivation behind it.  Sliding one's cock into a woman can be lovemaking if done with your partner, sex if done with a stranger, and rape if done against your will.  Same act, three different meanings.

Same goes for the OPs scenario.  For some of my partners it would be a breach of trust, for others, they would spend years masterbating over the memories.  It isn't the act, it is your motivation in doing it and the emotional playground you and your partner have created.

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 8:22:45 AM   
possom


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Status: offline 		Wow!  Thank you all  =)  Its good to hear so many varied responses!

Btw, this scene isnt for me, it was put to me by a Dom who got turned on by this idea. 

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RE: How would you feel if your Master..... - 6/17/2007 8:25:45 AM   
possom


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Status: offline 		Ok, say he wanted to do it to enforce the fact that the sub is owned by him .. what would that make it?

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