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RE: Sharing - 12/8/2007 1:55:57 PM

TysGalilah

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ORIGINAL: breatheasone

Cyndi...I hear you and if you'll forgive the "repost" I'd like to share this with you. I wrote it in response another fine Lady on this message board about this very subject. " I am a visitor to your country... I see you really enjoying a bite to eat...but to me it looks very unappetizing. Now you sense this and smile. Giving me the "thumbs up" (we don't speak the same language) trying to convey that its really good.... I smile and playfully shake my head no...You understand that its just not my thing...and I understand that to you its an awesome thing.. The best part is...we both see we are happy with that.....
Thanks again for your perspective."
All my best, Candy

The best part is...we both see we are happy with that.....
Thanks again for your perspective."
All my best, Candy
absolutely and well said.
I appreciate your perspective as well.
and mybest to you and your Master/Daddy.

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RE: Sharing - 12/8/2007 1:58:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyLegs

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It constantly amazes me that people will "share" with someone they wouldn't loan their car to.

well, everyone Ive ever shared with, Id gladly let drive my car....we dont do the one night stands swinging type, we become good friends first, people we can take our kids out to the park with and grill hamburgers, people I'd invite to thanksgiving dinner with my family casue they dont have anyone nearby (and yea, I took people I met on swingers sites to my family reunion this year).....people Im not embarrased to introduce my mother too...

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RE: Sharing - 12/8/2007 2:02:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
Tigrita, even if it wasn't detrimental to our relationship for me to indulge a taste for strawberry, it would be detrimental for me. I can't have sex just to sate a shallow desire. I need an emotional connection.

I've done the no connection sex, and even when they were friends it just doesn't work. I'm wired for monogamy, sex and play both. Otherwise I just feel bad about myself.

I respect that.

I guess maybe that is one thing that could be at the heart of it. Whether you can meet someone or know someone fairly casually and have that drive of 'God, do I want to fuck them!' (and seriously mean it) without a desire for an emotional relationship. Honestly it doesn't happen often with me, but I can have sex without emotional attachment.

My relationship with my ex was an open relationship in theory, but I never had the urge+opportunity to indulge that for about a year. Heh, when the urge+opportunity did arise, it also became clear that he wasn't as comfortable with an open relationship as he had claimed. Another pitfall of the situation. No, it certainly doesn't work for everyone.

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RE: Sharing - 12/8/2007 2:04:05 PM

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absolutely and well said.
I appreciate your perspective as well.
and mybest to you and your Master/Daddy.

Back at ya darlin...

Its been a real pleasure discussing with with you Cyndi.

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RE: Sharing - 12/8/2007 2:05:49 PM

TysGalilah

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ORIGINAL: ghitaPVH

heya folks....this threads certainly kept going since I left yesterday! I told you it was a good question, breathes...

shameless plug about sharing.....my Daddy told me this morning if I sell enough stuff at the next show I can buy Trapped a plane ticket down here and he'll share her with me...lol....ok..so I havent asked Trapped yet, but oh well...we allready decided earlier in this thread she doesnt get a say in things....

Anyway, I dont have a whole lot of time to go into things, in fact I didnt even get to read through all of whats been written since I left yesterday, but Im surprised less people have chimed in about situations where only one person in monogomous and the other has multiple partners...is it not as common as I thought? Id like to know peoples motivations behond that sort of thing....well..ok..Im nosy, but still....

Hope I understood your question
[ Id like to know peoples motivations behond that sort of thing]

for us, his decision to add a 3rd was in an effort to help me explore my bi-sensual nature, but in a Ds context.

I was already in a intimate relationship with a female friend.. ( that was a relationship apart and separate from mine with Tyson and was in existence before he and I began ours.) This seemed a natural step in his thinking and intention.

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