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RE: Aura of violence - 12/26/2007 12:06:39 PM

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Like peanut butter and chocolate??

LOL
More like chapagne and caviar

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RE: Aura of violence - 12/26/2007 12:15:04 PM

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For me, it isn't an aura of violence that attracts me to a man...it is his virility and masculinity that sends me over the edge.

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RE: Aura of violence - 12/26/2007 12:26:25 PM

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I heard someone say once, "I want a man who would be capable of killing me but would never actually follow through with it..."

A male friend of mine once told me of my ex-husband who is a third degree black belt (who could fly off the handle quickly at me) that I should actually have a healthy respect for a man who could kill me 50 different ways, but opted not to do it.

I was never sure how to take that... Kinda twisted and freakish, but true all the same.

Along these lines, I wanted to chime in that I've told my Master before, I love knowing that he has the power to destroy me. I trust that he will not, but I know that he can, none-the-less.

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RE: Aura of violence - 12/26/2007 12:34:58 PM

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What gives you the "tingle of fear"?

When he ignores my distress with a cool, uncaring expression; knowing the colder he gets, the hotter I become!
Times when I am screaming and crying and I know it isn’t going to stop because it’s still within the parameters of what has been agreed to.
The fact that he trusts me more than I trust myself to deal with whatever is taking place.
When he decides I’ve become a little too comfortable and pushes the envelope just enough to make me feel a bit unbalanced.

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RE: Aura of violence - 12/26/2007 12:56:38 PM

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I'd say there are differing "auras of violence". An aura of "subject to bouts of random violence" does nothing for me. An aura of "fully capable of targeted violence when the situation requires it" is a whole different matter.

The first instance smacks of anger control issues, and irrationality. The second one smacks of strength, presence of mind and integrity. To me, at any rate.

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RE: Aura of violence - 12/26/2007 7:04:25 PM

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It would seem like the person has a short temper and is quick to get angry at little things.

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RE: Aura of violence - 12/26/2007 7:27:02 PM

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This "hurt", is it purely physical, or emotional, or both?

I'm talking about physical hurt.

Not emotional, not sure I could ever be secure enough in a relationship to go there, although that's probably what makes it enticing for someone who likes to play like that.

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