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Traditional or 50's Style Relationships - 2/5/2008 5:49:57 AM

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i would like to learn more about traditional or 50's style relationships; what exactly do these terms mean? What are the personality traits and character roles involved in this type of relationship? Where might i be able to find more information?

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RE: Traditional or 50's Style Relationships - 2/5/2008 5:53:47 AM

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By watching the brady bunch?

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RE: Traditional or 50's Style Relationships - 2/5/2008 6:05:56 AM

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I'm thinking more "Leave it to Beaver"

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RE: Traditional or 50's Style Relationships - 2/5/2008 6:07:42 AM

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Ward, you were awfully hard on the beaver last night.

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RE: Traditional or 50's Style Relationships - 2/5/2008 6:11:02 AM

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children children ...

hello! ...The Waltons ..

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RE: Traditional or 50's Style Relationships - 2/5/2008 6:16:12 AM

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What are the personality traits and character roles involved in this type of relationship?

A good sense of humor! People sometimes think D/s relationships and message boards should be SERIOUS ALL THE TIME. Almost all the bondage scenes I've ever been had moments that were really fucking funny.

Oh, and people......

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RE: Traditional or 50's Style Relationships - 2/5/2008 6:18:14 AM

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What are the personality traits and character roles involved in this type of relationship?

A good sense of humor! People sometimes think D/s relationships and message boards should be SERIOUS ALL THE TIME. Almost all the bondage scenes I've ever been had moments that were really fucking funny.

Oh, and people......

Father Knows Best.

Hey...funny on a BDSM board?

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RE: Traditional or 50's Style Relationships - 2/5/2008 6:22:14 AM

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Look kitten, lets answer the question...:)

to the OP I would do a search here. I am sure there are old threads abot it. There are old threads about everything.

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RE: Traditional or 50's Style Relationships - 2/5/2008 6:22:46 AM

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ozzie and harriet, you know he was beating the shit outta her while ricky went thru his teenage angst.

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RE: Traditional or 50's Style Relationships - 2/5/2008 6:25:34 AM

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Kurious, this post on another thread is a great start, for an inside look at the truly perveted lifestyle of a 1950s-ish Master/slave couple.

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=1599437

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RE: Traditional or 50's Style Relationships - 2/5/2008 6:25:50 AM

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I like to slap Donna Reed around. Walking around wearing that dress. You know she had no panties on....right?

Op.... you can also google it. It takes a while to page through the crap but you can find info there

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RE: Traditional or 50's Style Relationships - 2/5/2008 6:28:38 AM

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i would like to learn more about traditional or 50's style relationships; what exactly do these terms mean? What are the personality traits and character roles involved in this type of relationship? Where might i be able to find more information?

Try googling domestic discipline, or look at the site takeninhand.

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RE: Traditional or 50's Style Relationships - 2/5/2008 6:34:45 AM

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I like to slap Donna Reed around. Walking around wearing that dress. You know she had no panties on....right?

Op.... you can also google it. It takes a while to page through the crap but you can find info there

Jimmy Stewart

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RE: Traditional or 50's Style Relationships - 2/5/2008 6:44:47 AM

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And Kate certainly had it coming!!

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RE: Traditional or 50's Style Relationships - 2/5/2008 7:42:26 AM

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The female does not work outside the home. The male makes a nice living, enough to solely support a family of at least four. The female makes the perfect home (usually in some perfect suburb) and raises the children. They own only one car. The female wears dark red lipstick and high heels all day long (except for Mary Tyler Moore). The male and the female each sleep in his/her own twin bed which are separated by at least three feet. They never have sex, but somehow children are born to them. They never French kiss. They never curse. They never tie each other up. They never have a problem that can’t be solved in 30 minutes or less.

My situation is probably pretty close because I don’t work outside the home right now (I might get a part time job ‘cause I’m going *nuts*). I do care for the house and wait on my husband/Dom pretty much hand and foot. My house is usually messy, and right now I have no bathroom window (just Styrofoam stapled where a window should be). I don’t wear dark red lipstick but do put on makeup at least three times a week. I never wear high heels anymore. We sleep in the same bed and both curse a bit, sometimes simultaneously. I do get tied up on occasion, and we may fashion a 50's-style dungeon in the basement next summer. We have lots and lots of problems that drive us to the brink of insanity and probably always will.

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RE: Traditional or 50's Style Relationships - 2/5/2008 7:45:21 AM

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Yumm..Lauren and Kate.... *pant pant*

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RE: Traditional or 50's Style Relationships - 2/5/2008 8:07:20 AM

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Please do not respond by deferring me to old TV shows that i haven't watched in ages.

i want to know what common life was like for those who lived in the 50's generation. How was it different in comparison to the 70's, 80's, 90's, and today? Are we talking about the dutiful wife and mother who stays home to cook, clean, and take care of the children while the father goes out and works to support the family? Or does it also include non-equal rights between men and women; women not allowed to work or vote; women and children should be seen and not heard; women should stay out of men's business? What responsibilities were designated between men and women back then; just exactly how tight of a reign did men have on their wives during that era? What were the consequences of a woman opposing or rebelling against her husband, society, or government? What types of work were acceptable for a woman to help provide financial support to her family?

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RE: Traditional or 50's Style Relationships - 2/5/2008 8:17:39 AM

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we might refer but rarely defer.

Trouble is you are asking a question as large and varied in individual answer as every family that lived in the '50s.

I could say; that we sat down at 6pm on the dot for supper and you better be there or it is your ass.

I can say my father was in charge, and my mother DEFERRED to his wishes.
I can say that children were to be seen and not heard.

I can say women were homemakers, only the rare one had a job.... and usually had each other over for coffee, cake, bridge and swapped beauty secrets, and quilted, and crafted....and so on

We didn't know about cholesterol and wouldnt have give a fiddlers fuck about it if we did. We ate simple fare, but ate like kings!!!!

I can say that in middle america, you didnt have divorce, nor did you have gangs.

I can say that were I to be down the basement at the workbench, making a pipe bomb, at some point in the black and white news with huntley/brinkley or the rattling of the newspaper, he would have yelled from his easy chair, what you doing son?
I would have said, building a pipe bomb to blow up school, dad.

He would say, come up here when you get done with that.
I would have and he would have beat the shit out of me with it, and said that he would have to kill me because I obviously wasn't right in the fucking head and had no social graces.

I can say just like billy joel-----
the good old days weren't always good;
and tomorrow's not as bright as it seems.

So, that is a slice of what I saw.......

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RE: Traditional or 50's Style Relationships - 2/5/2008 8:19:48 AM

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The female does not work outside the home. The male makes a nice living, enough to solely support a family of at least four. The female makes the perfect home (usually in some perfect suburb) and raises the children. They own only one car. The female wears dark red lipstick and high heels all day long (except for Mary Tyler Moore). The male and the female each sleep in his/her own twin bed which are separated by at least three feet. They never have sex, but somehow children are born to them. They never French kiss. They never curse. They never tie each other up. They never have a problem that can’t be solved in 30 minutes or less.

My situation is probably pretty close because I don’t work outside the home right now (I might get a part time job ‘cause I’m going *nuts*). I do care for the house and wait on my husband/Dom pretty much hand and foot. My house is usually messy, and right now I have no bathroom window (just Styrofoam stapled where a window should be). I don’t wear dark red lipstick but do put on makeup at least three times a week. I never wear high heels anymore. We sleep in the same bed and both curse a bit, sometimes simultaneously. I do get tied up on occasion, and we may fashion a 50's-style dungeon in the basement next summer. We have lots and lots of problems that drive us to the brink of insanity and probably always will.

WONDERFUL ANSWER!!! This is what i am looking for ... a descriptive comparison of the 50's vs. modern lifestyles! The fact that they never slept in the same bed is a detail i would have never thought of on my own. i like how you described similarities, differences, modifications, and so forth.

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RE: Traditional or 50's Style Relationships - 2/5/2008 8:25:00 AM

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That, of course; isn't at all true. On TV because of purient censorship...separate beds and if one came over to the others bed one foot must be on the floor.

You are catching a little scarcasm there.

My folks fucked like minks, and when the bedroom door was closed, you better not even be in that end of the house.

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