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Slaves do everything while Master do nothing - 5/9/2008 6:32:42 PM

Willowmoon

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I have read so many posts on these boards where I have seen the Dom types talking about how their slaves do the housework and make them breakfast, lunch, dinner, get them what ever they want when ever they want or are punished and it makes me wonder just how this can really work in the real world where the majority of people have to work fulltime jobs to pay the rent, buy the food etc and where households tend to need two full time incomes to really survive.

If a slave is working all day just the same as the Master works all day how can she have the energy to do the housework, shopping and prepare all the meals as well as having to serve her Master and have the energy to play if he decides he wants to play that day. It doesn't seem realistic or fair to me. The slave does everything, falls in to bed exhausted to get up and have to do it all again the next day while the Master can sit on his ass watch TV and just relax.

Yes I know a slave is there to serve her Master and makes his life easier but in the real world a little thing called life gets in the way of the slave does everything so the Master doesn't have too mindset. I am glad that my Master doesn't make me serve him like that. As it is most days by the time I get home I am exhausted and don't have the energy to even climb in to a warm bath that Master has run for me. In our home we share the chores and cooking and to be honest Master does more of the chores then I do because he would prefer that I focus on my study or that I have the energy for him to play with when he wants too. I do the cooking though as his not the worlds best cook.

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RE: Slaves do everything while Master do nothing - 5/9/2008 6:35:42 PM

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It only works for a few. Most of the women just say "screw you, lazy retard!" and leave.

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RE: Slaves do everything while Master do nothing - 5/9/2008 6:46:37 PM

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It only works for a few. Most of the women just say "screw you, lazy retard!" and leave.

Ooh!!! You are HUMAN after all... and ROFL! thy reply! *grins*

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RE: Slaves do everything while Master do nothing - 5/9/2008 6:51:10 PM

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Sometimes its the slave who is being lazy.

I had a submissive staying with me for awhile who aspired to be my slave. Her only job was to clean the house, cook the meals, do the laundry and serve me. Meanwhile I worked full time running my various businesses, plus construction, plus all the other stuff I do. My days are often 10-12 hour days.

The problem was she couldn't keep up with me. I work hard, I expect a slave to work hard.

You bet your ass a slave is there to serve me... I work damn hard and have built a good life for myself, one where I can afford to support a slave or three. I intend to enjoy it. So while I don't particularly have a problem with being a "sugar daddy"... they are soooooo gonna earn it.

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RE: Slaves do everything while Master do nothing - 5/9/2008 6:53:23 PM

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I have only seen such a setup work once. However, the Dom was working 12 hour days to pay off a financial disaster essentially caused by the sub.

In any other situation, lazy retard would be the nicest thing said as the door slams.

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RE: Slaves do everything while Master do nothing - 5/9/2008 6:56:23 PM

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I am along the same thread as Padraig. I work all day, Fox tends not to when he is at my house. I pay the bills here, so he earns his keep. He does the chores while I am at work. There is no reason for him to sit around and do nothing when I am at work, especially if there are things around the house that need doing.
I cook, he cleans. I work and I am the primary breadwinner for now. That might not always be the case, but at the moment he is in MY home and so he does his part.
Having a slave who comes home and does al the work isnt that far off of a vanilla couple where the woman works and then comes home and tends house. Only real difference is that there might be playtime at some point.

My opinion of course
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RE: Slaves do everything while Master do nothing - 5/9/2008 6:58:19 PM

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it's all about balance, and what works for two people really.

i cook, clean most of Sir's place, and clean my own place. He takes out the trash and cleans the litter box at His place. We put away clean laundry together, and it's anybody's guess which one of us will end up doing the laundry on a given day.

we both work full time. He makes more money than i do, thus pays for most of what we do together, though i pay for some things. we each pay our own bills.

it works for us. and when things feel like too much for me, i talk to him about it. if we can come up with a different strategy, we do. if not....well, no, there has never been a time we couldn't figure something out.

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RE: Slaves do everything while Master do nothing - 5/9/2008 6:59:41 PM

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ORIGINAL: Willowmoon
If a slave is working all day just the same as the Master works all day how can she have the energy to do the housework, shopping and prepare all the meals as well as having to serve her Master and have the energy to play if he decides he wants to play that day. It doesn't seem realistic or fair to me. The slave does everything, falls in to bed exhausted to get up and have to do it all again the next day while the Master can sit on his ass watch TV and just relax.

Fair? Oh, you SO don't wanna use the F-word around here

We tend to compromise... i do all the housework, but half-assed and irregularly. In return, i only have to worry about having the energy for play once every couple of months. i won't say that i'd expect it to work for everyone, tho...

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RE: Slaves do everything while Master do nothing - 5/9/2008 7:11:59 PM

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quote:

Slaves do everything while Master do nothing

How come I always gotta do nothing?

How come you always gotta do everything?

How come I never get to do everything?

How come?

an 11 year old.

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RE: Slaves do everything while Master do nothing - 5/9/2008 7:12:18 PM

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and you're basing your opinion on what? whatever happened to not all D/s or M/s relationships are cut from the same cookie cutter?

you would be amazed that after working four 13 to 14 hrs days of dealing with patients and their problems, Daddy still does housework, cooking, laundry, grocery shopping, misc errands, etc. so based on this, your theory is wrong.

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RE: Slaves do everything while Master do nothing - 5/9/2008 7:25:19 PM

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A slaves job is to serve their master no matter what the service is...

When having a sub I expect them to do what I tell them to...

When being a sub Im expected to do what I'm told...

During play time its the same thing...if you live in a household like that you should respect the master just like the master should (in some ways respect the servant)..and by respecting the servant i mean RESPECTING the safe word...

Yes it is a catch 22... respecting your master is what a makes a good slave....

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RE: Slaves do everything while Master do nothing - 5/9/2008 7:29:16 PM

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Hello willow. I would love to know how you zeroed in on My life just now.

I am currently sitting home, alone and bored on a Friday night. Why is this, you might ask? It is because My sub was, in My opinion, too tired to attend Community At Play with Me this evening. We literally turned the car around, en route, so that each of us could go to our alternative resting places, and skip the plans I had come up with.

Right now, I am very torn. Yes, I honestly believe that My own sub should do what it is that pleases Me. In other words, he most certainly should have been willing to make the trip with Me, and have O/our little bit of escape. Due to other reasons, I needed to do this, but before even getting out of town, I could tell that he was not prepared in the way I feel he should be. This might be skewed because of My personal perception. Long story short, I did not feel that he wanted to serve Me, and I am now home this evening.

Needless to say, I am greatly disappointed. (Does the phrase all dressed up and nowhere to go make sense to anyone?) I have yet determined on how to handle this. Part of Me says, "screw it". I refuse to sit at home, when social opportunities are available. I do not, for a moment, believe submission is an option, done when it is convenient, or taken with selective choice.

Yet, I understand his position, and am empathetic to his needs. Had he told Me from the beginning that he could not live up to My expectations, it would have been different. However, he did not come to Me, in the proper way, which he knows is important.

Perhaps I will have a better answer in the morning, when My mind is clear. I would hope that he knows that submission is not an option, It is My belief that either one serves Me or they don't. It is his time to chose.

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RE: Slaves do everything while Master do nothing - 5/9/2008 7:31:28 PM

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I suppose submission trumps compassion.

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RE: Slaves do everything while Master do nothing - 5/9/2008 7:32:08 PM

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The relationship i have with my Daddy is like that, but as others have said, he works and provides everything for our home and i take care of the home and everything that that entails.

i am more than happy to make him as many meals a day as i am able (usually it is only one but sometimes i get to do more)...i do all of the cleaning and wouldn't think for a nano second of asking him to do ANY of it or even pick up after himself (which he does by bringing his dishes into the kitchen occasionally)....He has never taken out the garbage or cleaned anything while i am home (if i am away i even ask him to leave it at his comfort level, until i return home)

Conversely he has never said that i have to go out and work for a living or to provide for us, has never asked me to "ante" up for dinner or groceries (he's actually told me NOT to spend some of the money i do get on stuff that isn't for my own personal needs)

i think it's funny to even consider asking him to do that stuff...It would go something like this..

"Daddy, you need to get up and help me with the cleaning."

"Honey, that's why i have a slave...If you don't like it, leave"

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RE: Slaves do everything while Master do nothing - 5/9/2008 7:34:57 PM

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Always remember what you read online is just that ~ online. It is easy to type what the real world is when no one can actually see it.

In my world my Owner is Master and I am his slave/property. We both work full time, we share house tasks, that is our reality. He does not see our life as making him any less of a Dominant.

Interestingly enough we were at a munch recently and this exact topic came up. All of the Dominants present did some type of household work. We all joked that they had not read the "Dom Manual" and how they were really not true dominants.

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RE: Slaves do everything while Master do nothing - 5/9/2008 7:38:55 PM

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As I read it, everyone here agrees. Nobody thinks a relationship can last with both people working full-time and only the sub performing all of the daily life chores plus serving the Dom.

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RE: Slaves do everything while Master do nothing - 5/9/2008 7:49:56 PM

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Lots of wives in the vanilla world do it everyday, and a few husbands.

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RE: Slaves do everything while Master do nothing - 5/9/2008 8:23:07 PM

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My sister is perfectly nilla. She married a guy from work who does the exact job she does. She makes slightly more than he only because she was working there a year longer. Her grown son mows the lawn, yardwork, ect. And she comes home 15 mins before her mate (he goes in 15 mins later), begins making dinner, does the cleanup, ect. Nilla.. housewife.. and totally unbalanced in my view. The result? He still lives there, and pays rent. They divorced and she took over the payments. I hope the sex is good.
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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

Having a slave who comes home and does al the work isnt that far off of a vanilla couple where the woman works and then comes home and tends house. Only real difference is that there might be playtime at some point.

My opinion of course
DV

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RE: Slaves do everything while Master do nothing - 5/9/2008 8:29:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: daddyncherry

Conversely he has never said that i have to go out and work for a living or to provide for us,

Whoah, that's a whole different story, now. i'd take that any day of the week, and twice on Sundays. Hell, i'd run over a carload of big-eyed puppies and pitiful little Dickensian orphans to take that (i'd swerve around the playful kittens, though- i'm not a monster).

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RE: Slaves do everything while Master do nothing - 5/9/2008 8:39:06 PM

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Not to be contrary, but I haven't seen any regular posters say that they do nothing while their slaves do everything. I have seen a few posts crop up from people who pop in, act all "Domly" and then hit the bricks after the hornet's nest is stirred up, but it seems to me that folks here are pretty well grounded in the reality of reality.

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