slavegirljoy
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Joined: 11/6/2006 From: North Carolina, USA Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: khem I think it's really a matter of evaluating what kinds of activities GIVE energy and what kinds TAKE it from you. You said it, khem! i get energy from physical activity, working with my hands and staying busy. What drains my energy is being around a negative person, a complainer, a whiner, a person who only sees the bad things and misses out on all of the good, which is why i choose to stay away from people like that. quote:
So, couldn't you conceive, then, that someone might gain energy from a rewarding job? Gain energy from service? From housework? From play? I think it is a false assumption that all of these things has to be always draining. I think a good top will know how to attain a measure of balance in their demands based on knowing the energy level of their bottom (and what refuels them). Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes and, most definitely. Actually, my Master has to make me take a break sometimes and make me sit down and rest. For me, doing the household chores, the cooking, the cleaning, the yard work, the laundry, etc. is just what i do and what i have always done, whether i am in a live-in relationship (of any kind) or not and whether i am working a full-time job outside the house or not. It's just part of who i am. i clean. i even do windows. i clean the washing machine and underneath and behind the washing machine, the dryer, the fridge and the stove. i clean up after the 2 dogs. And, i clean the fish tank and the bird feeders. All the little critters are well cared for here. There isn't anything in or around this house that i don't clean. Accepting full responsibility for doing all of the household chores for my Master was a requirement for me when i came into my Master's house. It is one of my primary duties. But, since it's something i enjoy doing, it isn't a burden to me. And, honestly, i wish i could do more for my Master. He has given me so much and i feel i owe Him so much and i don't ever feel like i even come close to giving Him all that He should have. He is the King of His castle and He deserves to be treated as such and should never have to lift a finger to keep it clean. He works hard to be a good provider. And, He has already made sure that His slave and offspring will be well cared for, should He pass from this life too soon. The least i can do is to make sure that He has a clean and comfortable home to come to at the end of His work day and that He has a freshly brewed cup of coffee to wake up to in the morning, served to Him by His happy slave. joy Owned servant of Master David
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