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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

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I would love to find a life partner with an incredible D/s fit. What can I say...I want it all!!

wanders,
of course you want it all, but if you had to make a choice right now, today; which would it be?
CP

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MAN-what a diatribe! Sorry about that.  

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

Quivver, well then by all means share the secret of having both.

CP

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ORIGINAL: littleone35

If by life partner you are talking avout someon you want in your life for a long term i would chooses that.  We do have to be a good D/s fit also or i could go vanilla for long term partner.  I was lucky i found both with my Master.

Matt's littleone

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

Not withstanding other issues such as your age, sex, experience etc; what do you as a submissive seek as a primarely goal?
As is true most of the time this inquiery is fostered by reading profiles of many, not all, of respondes to various thread here on CM as well as other sites that I visit at times.

Is a life partner foremost in your search at the expense of other issues; or are the aspects of a very nice D/s fit are what riings your chime?

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ORIGINAL: subtee

I want:

When the world ends
Youre gonna come with me
Were going to be crazy
Like a river bends
Were going to float
Through the criss cross of the mountains
Watch them fade to nothing
When the world ends
You know thats whats happening now
Im going to be there with you somehow, oh...

Im going to tie you up like a baby in a carriage car
Your legs wont work cause you want me so
You just lie spread to the wall
The love you got is surely
All the love that I would ever need
Im going to take you by my side
And love you tall, til the world ends

Oh, but dont you worry about a thing
No, cause I got you here with me
Dont you worry about a
Just you and me
Floating through the empty, empty
Just you and me
Oh, graces
Oh, grace
 
-dmb

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I have been looking for a warm,caring,loving relationship that just happens to incorporate BDSM for a LONG time. No luck

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I love getting older, I just don't want to get "old!"

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So I guess my answer is that I wouldn't make that choice.... the two are not able to be separated by me. I have tried in the past but it didn't work.

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Sure I'd prefer D/s, and I'd miss the physical kink a lot - but I miss it being single too (being not much into casual play dates.) Somehow between my fertile imagination and Doc Johnson's, I've been getting by. <http://www.collarchat.com/image/s1.gif>

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There is no secret. I'm just happy with Me and My choices.

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When the world ends
Youre gonna come with me
Were going to be crazy
Like a river bends
Were going to float
Through the criss cross of the mountains
Watch them fade to nothing
When the world ends
You know thats whats happening now
Im going to be there with you somehow, oh...

Im going to tie you up like a baby in a carriage car
Your legs wont work cause you want me so
You just lie spread to the wall
The love you got is surely
All the love that I would ever need
Im going to take you by my side
And love you tall, til the world ends

Oh, but dont you worry about a thing
No, cause I got you here with me
Dont you worry about a
Just you and me
Floating through the empty, empty
Just you and me
Oh, graces
Oh, grace

-dmb

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Why would I have to make a choice? If my eyes are open to whatever lies ahead of me and I delve into life with open arms and embrace what comes my way, maybe I wouldn't have to choose. A D/s fit could very well turn out to be my life partner. But if I put restrictions on life, then I could be limiting myself to who comes into my life.

Granted, choices may have to be made but why would I have to set up boundaries while I'm "looking". I really don't like the idea of "looking" or "searching". It sounds as if one is grocery shopping looking for the best deal with a stack of coupons.

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As far as what the current choice is today... well one potential life partner search recently came to an end ..so made plans for spending time with one of my D/s fit friends no sooner had done that and was contacted by a Dom who has been interested for quite some time in exploring a potential lifetime relationship with me but I had been in relationships before so we have discussed where I am at now and will likely start to explore that relationship in mid July as i will only will submit to one Dom at a time.

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My goal is to experience the dominant using me. It is about being dominated. The context I prefer is a short term relationship lasting until they get bored with me. It would be a case of someone dominant saying "I want to take a submissive and use them for a while". Then in that relationship I get to experience whatever they dish out, based on their particular impulses and needs. In my case I want a lot of sexual contact and verbal abuse, but the main thing is to enter into the realm of the dominant's desires, anything goes within limits.