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lightscribe -> RE: Do any ladies prefer beta males? (8/1/2008 7:38:08 PM)
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ORIGINAL: MISTRESSKUMA
Ever wonder why you're the only one on the block hostile and alone? Ever
wonder why other people are successful and you are not? Ever wonder why
others find happiness in this world, but you don't? It's the same world,
isn't it? Are you hostile to the sidewalk too? You get what you put out so
what your seeing in this world you hate, is a reflection of you. You are
your worst enemy.
No, no, and well no. I am not hostile nor alone actually when it comes to people in my life. No, I do not wonder why other people are successful because well, quite frankly I am successful in my career field already and pretty financially secure. I do indeed have happiness in my world and actually have very little hostility towards anyone. If having standards about myself and expectations about myself is so uncomprehensible to those who apparently do not and are unwilling to be truthful to themselves, then is it any wonder as bottomboy81 notes: "If you are man or woman and have had 100s or 1000s of offers and remain here for months or years, you're expectations are obviously not functional."
I simply wish to know why it is that dommes on here seem to think they deserve an alpha male submissive when they themselves really have nothing to offer them in return that they would want. Is that really too much to ask of a dominant personality to answer about themselves? And if that person is unwilling to look inside themselves and answer those questions truthfully, then what does it say about them as a whole or about their supposed dominance in general? Why would any successful, career driven and goal oriented person wish to be with someone who was not? After all, I do not see many CEO's, corporate business men, successful women, laywers, doctors, etc. who are with someone who does not have a similar level of drive, passion, goal awareness or self-awareness as themselves. And finally, why do those female Dominants who do not possess those traits within themselves seem to expect them in an alpha male submissive in return? What is so special about them that they seem to think someone of that status is going to be interested in the first place?
Really folks, this is not a hard set of questions to answer unless self-truth is unbearable to you. And if self-truth is unbearable, what does that speak about when it comes to a persons so called dominance? How can you expect to be dominant over an alpha male submissive when you cannot even be dominant enough with yourselves to answer simple questions regarding self-truth and self-actualization?
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