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Hippiekinkster -> RE: Fiancee/sub disappeared, looking for a bit of advice. (12/25/2008 5:14:02 PM)
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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub
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ORIGINAL: Saishuu
If you want to know what I did when I smashed stuff it was this... My Fiancee had cooked a few bad dinners in the last few weeks (yes I cook too so don't misread that please), I had discussed this with her. However she brought me in a small piece of fish & some peas, another bad dinner... I shouted WTF is this... and slammed my fork into the plate, the fork bent beyond repair & peas and fish went flying every where. I calmed down afterwards... turns out she thought there was more when she started cooking. I know this was a completely stupid thing to do... I was simply upset, another reaction I could of had to the dinner was to start crying... I wish I had done this now.
The other time, I snapped a phone in half because hannah was crying after getting off the phone to her mum (this is after her mum got engaged), She was being a passive agressive bitch down the phone & making my fiancee feel bad. I broke the phone because of this.
See... I think that's completely out of line and would scare the shit out of me. The reaction is so over the top and out of control. I'm glad you are getting help, just leave her be till you can handle situations like bad dinners calmly and - at worst - insist on her taking cooking classes.
Yeah, I'd say that's some pretty freaky behavior. Me, I'd say, "This ain't one of your best dinners, babe, but thank you for making it for me." Or I'd just say the second clause.
And I never did listen to any of my ex's phone calls. I consider that to be intrusive, rude, and slightly psychotic.
I'm thinking "anger management" classes are inadequate.
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