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ORIGINAL: missturbation
So you are allowing others opinions of you to make you question your judgement on whether you are a dom or not?
Egggggsactly!...Actually it was the input from several others that got me a thinking...At first it was that they were kind of downplaying my interests by alluding to the fact that without TPE there could never be solid a connection between us. Then I got to thinking..."What the fuck! I could do this shit with my eyes closed...How dare these lowly subs question my authority! Off with your britches and on your knees! But then after some searching I determined I don't have the energy, patience nor the overall desire to participate in something so time consuming. TPE IS BEYOND MY CAPABILITIES.. I know I would get bored with my creation; I would abandon my frankenstein...I would never get to shout.."It's Alive!"
The cops would be stretching out the crime scene tape and chalking around subsusies' lifeless corpse...When one of the detectives shoots me a sideways glance and says, "Man, I have never seen anything like this before in twentysix years on the force. You stabbed her in excess of six hundred and fifty times...Can you even begin to tell me what happened here?
I stop my incessant rocking and look out into the distance and slowly mumble, "She kept asking whether I wanted SpaghettiOs or chicken tortilla soup?" I told her, "I don't fucking care, make whatever you like.....But the bitch wouldn't let up...She kept asking and asking and asking and asking and asking and asking." I lower my head into the palms of my hands and begin to quietly sob. A short time later when I have collected myself, I ask the nearest officer, "I am feeling much better now, is it okay if I go fishing? I mean, what the fuck! Clearly this is a case of justifiable homicide."
I don't want to have to locate you a new brain..I want to use the one you have. I want a live woman not some cadaver.
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ORIGINAL: cjan
Yes, real people who are sane and balanced and don't need someone to micro-manage their lives are preferable over the alternative to many folks. I also prefer friends and lovers who don't fit comfortably into little boxes and are not obsessed with labels and "lifestyle" paradigms.
This is a solid thought. Many like BSB, Lusciouslips,The Heretic LaT,Ivy,Ocean, Michael and many others kind of go along with this notion.
I think TPE is based upon the concept of micromanagement. Otherwise we would be discussing CPE (Conditional Power Exchange) PEbth (Power Exchange by the hour) or HAPE (Half Assed Power Exchange) . I am a strong proponent of HAPE...In fact, one of it's founding members. There is talk of the issuance of a commerative coin. On one side is a girl tied and bound on all fours left completely alone...The other side is a fine reproduction of me fly fishing.
I can't take the time to tell you what to do. I definitely don't sweat the small shit and would expect you to follow suit....
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ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp
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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968
My goal is 24/7 TPE. I want it all and we are slowly working towards it. He knows where I am at any time during the day. He plans on eventually controlling my food, clothing, my job, schedule, everything. The fact that he wants that and I want that does not mean that I'm incapable of making sound decisions. We both feed off of the intensity of that level of control.
What she said...exactly.
You two are about as compatable for a TPE as a dog is to playing the violin...You would never survive. It's a complete fantasy.
Your opinions would mean shit....You two are extrememly opinionated and wouldn't begin to take to that lifestyle.
You would bail the first time it didn't meet your standards or live up to your heightened and elaborate fantasy...Today you are going to fuck your most expensive pair of shoes, this afternoon you will blow the homeless and later I think a touch of forced "bi" might just put a cap on a great day...Ooooh, I'm sorry by using the word "touch" I actually meant a good five or six hour session of some fine ass pussy eating.
Good luck with that. Have you ever considered joining HAPE? You would both be perfect.
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ORIGINAL: DarkWhipster
I have read through any of the above responces and see merit in all of them. The fact is either Y/you are or Y/your not. Those that are accept it and do not need to flaunt it or dramatize it. They know just exatly who they are and can not change regaurdless of relationships or circumstances of life.
Those that are not may feel fleeting sparks of Dominancy or sub/ slave tendancies. But only in some arena where the role play is being acted out.
Those that ARE , are very capable of the 24/7 lives. However it will take two that ARE. Any other combination would fail.
Those that are not will enjoy sparks and intermitant surges of the life and lets hope they realize this and limit themselves to their abilities.
I was raised in this and am the 4th generation. My Sons are being groomed in the same ways I was. They are the 5th generation of a very old and steadfast tradition. And yes they will manage every aspect of Their lives as well and Their spouses and childrens lives. For Disapline at every level is demanded and expected.
Perhaps you should introduce your sons to Aileen and phatslut....I'm not a professional matchmaker but I can spot when two people are heading in the right direction....A union truly blessed by God. Relocating to Idaho doesn't seem like such a big deal. They should be inspired to serve the fifth generation well...Or even "The Next Generation." You wouldn't happen to be a Trekkie by chance?
You all seem to share the same ideology...The gals should have no problem fitting in with their 'ho counterparts. No thanks necessary, afterall, I'm an idea man.
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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent
Is a lion a lion one minute and a cat the next, or is he a full time lion? I think a life going through the motions with a spot of fun now and again is about as appealing as hacking indiscriminately at my knackers with a scythe.
In terms of Total Power Exchange, I don't know what it means and quite frankly I don't really care. Assuming you're asking whether or not total authority is the reason for being, then, yeah, that's for me. I don't believe that holding the levers of power can only lead to a relationship where the woman is utterly devoid of the ability to employ her reason: you can use those levers as you so wish. Think of the Rule of Law: the law is not an absolute authority, but it certainly is the authority; you're entitled to an appeal, but you must obey the decision of the law (assuming you want to avoid the consequences of the alternative path).
I do like this notion. A woman can have her thoughts, as silly as they are. But I am the final judge.
But like most things that come from over the pond it is hard to take seriously...Probably the accent, or maybe that nothing of use has come from that puny island in the last century or so.
Even the Lion needs rest...Though proud of his pride, it is not uncommon to send the yatches scurrying off into the bush...Just to watch them lick the bush, or just to get them out of our mane for a few fucking hours... Send them out to do some hunting even though we have just gorged ourselves on the hind quarters of some beautiful and breathtaking water buffalo.
It is good to be the King, but every King needs a break...You keep wearing the crown for too long and you end up dead on the crapper.
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied
That sounds cool Aileen, and the best part is that you are open to that sort of evolution in your life.
The phone rings...I answer, "Hello"....Lil' cute subsusie squeals at the sound of my voice and says, "I'm at Target, just thought you might want to know where I am." I pull the phone away from my ear and stare at it for several seconds in complete disbelief. Then slowly respond. "If you are the target of a mob hit, you can call me...If you accidently get shot while at target practice you can call me....Never, ever, ever call me to tell me that you are at fucking Target again...Are we clear?..Now go fuck yourself."
It is nice to know that you are in someone's thoughts...The meaningless gift or hummer. Offer the unexpected. A simple flower, the card or the hand written note of appreciation. Though personally not familiar with these tactics I have heard that they have reaped tremendous dividends for others.
Feb 12th was Lincoln's birthday...Pretty wise dude.
"You cannot help men by doing for them what they could and should do for themselves."
"As I would not be a slave, so I would not be a master. This expresses my idea of democracy."
Poor Lincoln. His wife was one crazy bitch. I'm sure he finally enjoyed the sweet release of death.
And lastly in close, Mikey and BSB, no one wants to hear your monotonous praise for each other that has continued after the "break up." It's sickening.
Like so many others I wished you relationship would have ended with a degree of harsh finality. A door slam,unforgivable passed words, slapped face, black eye or the highly coveted restraining order. I have kept in contact with some of my previous fucks and it appalls me.
I wish your relationship would have ended badly. One of you should be emphatically stating that your time together was like your life was put on ice and that the 342 days that you spent together were ripped away never to be recovered...Similar to the activities of a kidney stealing crack ho.
The damage was irreparable.
I leave you now...To go see what is happening in the Halls of HAPE.
I wish you all.....
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