RiotGirl
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ooo ooo ooo.. now that i finally realised this thread wasnt about shoes LOL Which is why i hadnt joined in yet. Finally said "arggg.. its 5 pages.. i should go check it out" and was completely suprised it wasnt about shoes!
Techinically i am a slave. i've no rights, no limits. Granted i found a Master that thought along the same processes i did when it came to important things, therefore not needing rights or limits. Granted i'm also highly emotional, irrational, and cranky at times and demand those rights back.. which at times he chooses to let me have for how ever long he chooses and then he chooses to not let me have.
i am free to talk his ear off. i am free to sit there and ramble on and on. Going over concerns, happiness, issues, thoughts, feelings.. whatever my mind can think up. And i have! i remember one night i couldnt sleep and he was focused on something on the computer and i spoke for hours. until daylight. Now well i am free to do that. Expecting something because of it i am not free to do. heh, i suppose i could expect something - i just might get disapointed. i do not even expect him to listen. But he does. He rarely speaks. No matter what i am bringing up, or talking about, or how ever long the conversation is, he might only interject 2 or 3 sentences. Dependent on what we are talking about. ive no right to expect him to do anything really. As he usually does nothing but one thing. He listens. Ack, at times i wish he'd have a whole lot to say. i want to know what he's thinking, what his thoughts are.. what HE has to say. Yes it could seem he's ignoring me. He's not. He takes in what i say, thinks about it and takes whatever appropriate action he thinks is needed. When he chooses to make it. If he thinks i just need to speak, or purge or share whatever is rattling around in my brain its as far as it goes. If i'm upset about something and he thinks i neeed a hug, he'll do just that. If its a concern or an issue i'm bringing up, he'll make whatever changes he thinks are needed.
so while i am free to speak, i have no right to a reaction from him. i dont even have the right to speak. He grants me the freedom to speak freely as he knows i tend to have a very difficult time speaking. The reason i say i have no "right" is he could easily tell me to "hush" i have no rights. i have what he gives. Granted its not so easy in reality. sometimes i feel i DO have whatever right i want to demand at that moment. Like his attention.
Just because it is said, does not make it easy in practice. It can be very difficult at times. We can have full blown out issues because some how i get in my head "i have a right to THIS" <amusement> yet time and time again, no matter how many tantrums i throw the right doesnt seem to appear. And i have come to learn, i have what he gives and he can take it away quite easily.
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