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HimNbabygirl -> RE: Involving others in your kink vs. Not feeling the need to hide it (11/23/2009 8:57:00 PM)
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If that's the case (which I actually believe it is) I hope you will not be offended that I will remind you that it's actually clip. There's no "h". Don't worry. It happens all of the time.
For the rest, I won't correct you, as I do not know how you raised yours. What I'll do instead is ask you how you handled situations with them such as running into that gay male couple in the restaurant or what you did when you ran into that interracial couple while you were at the mall? These situations aren't any different than what is being discussed here. They absolutely are age appropriate if the little person asking the question has the the level of maturity to ask.
As I said earlier in the thread, I'm actually very conservative on the issue. I can promise you that your little people (who I assume are grown now) have heard far more disturbing things from the vanilla public than clip calling Me "Mistress" or if I call him lil one. I'd say the same about the things they've seen that are a heck of a lot more shocking than My boy wearing his leather collar.
Being a mother Myself, it is My opinion that My primary job from the time the little people were born until such time as they were ready to be a functioning adult in society, was My responsibility. That includes, but wasn't limited to, explaining things they saw in public, in movies, on tv, sex, alternative lifestyles, My belief system, and I can't tell you how many other things. It doesn't mean I was always happy about it, but it really did boil down to it being My job. I still consider it My job, even though they aren't all still in the nest.
In My case, there is no leash down main street. That is specifically because I understand that not all parents view the responsibility in the same manner that I do. In such cases, I'm not especially sure it is the underage person's maturity level that I worry about. It's more My concern about the person who brought them into the world.
As a parent of 3, step-parent of 2 and grandma of 1, i have taught those as children that love is love, God puts love in your heart, so as such it does not matter whether it is a man or woman. i have also taught them to be color blind so the inter-racial couple discussion has honestly never come up. my children come to me with their problems and concerns and a few of my daughters boyfriends have come to me for sexual advice because my daughter knows i will answer as truthfully as possible and if i don't know the answer, i will admit that and do my best to find an answer, or someone who can answer, for them. i have also been open and honest with my children about not only the joys, but the risks as well, that come with sex. i taught my daughter how to properly put on a condom (using a banana) and informed her that there were different ways of loving and if she ever wanted to experiment, that was fine but to do things safely, sanely and consensually. my reward for this was my daughter felt comfortable enough with me to tell me when she was considering having sex for the first time so i could make sure she was protected.
How children are raised is up to that child's parents. This is how i have, and am continuing to raise mine.
His baby girl
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