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RE: Humiliation by name calling - 2/1/2010 2:23:08 PM

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I look at page 4 and I think you are all trying to humiliate the OP against her conscent by derailing her thread... No?

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RE: Humiliation by name calling - 2/1/2010 2:32:34 PM

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I look at page 4 and I think you are all trying to humiliate the OP against her conscent by derailing her thread... No?

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She disappeared halfway through the second page; it's not like we are talking over her or interrupting any meaningful dialogue she is trying to have. Would this really be humiliating? Threads digress all the time.

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RE: Humiliation by name calling - 2/1/2010 2:37:11 PM

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I think it depends on the intent........and I can't speak for anyone apart from myself. I just found the marmite/vegemite/crumpet/muffin talk a bit more interesting for a brief moment.

I'd go back to discussing humiliation but in this thread , with the OP as start point, there's not much left to be said.

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RE: Humiliation by name calling - 2/1/2010 2:38:50 PM

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i was responding to what a poster said. i agree with her. There is always an underlying meaning to everything.

For instance a operson is not 100 pounds overweight, because they love pie. An alcholic doesn't drink lose his family, his career, etc, just because he likes the way it taste.

Why can't I get fat because I love pie? Pie is fantastic. I love Pie. People die friom lung cancer because they enjoy smoking cigs.

Pie is good. Pie is fattening. Pie is actually kind of fun to say.

Eat that fucking pie you fat fucking whore!!!!

Doesn't matter if it is chocolate, blueberry, apple or right there twix them thighs.

Eat that fucking pie you fat and dumb cocksucking whore!!!

I feel better.

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RE: Humiliation by name calling - 2/1/2010 2:39:10 PM

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I'd go back to discussing humiliation but in this thread , with the OP as start point, there's not much left to be said.

agirl

Then perhaps it's time for the thread to end and the silly banter can happen in the Radom stupidity category :-)

I'm not saying that I haven't goofed off a few times, but honestly, we are all getting a little out of hand with this. I'm not pointing fingers at anyone.

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Edited to add: See Domi got the thread back on topic!

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RE: Humiliation by name calling - 2/1/2010 2:46:22 PM

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I'd go back to discussing humiliation but in this thread , with the OP as start point, there's not much left to be said.

agirl

Then perhaps it's time for the thread to end and the silly banter can happen in the Radom stupidity category :-)

I'm not saying that I haven't goofed off a few times, but honestly, we are all getting a little out of hand with this. I'm not pointing fingers at anyone.

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Edited to add: See Domi got the thread back on topic!

I think you are ........ as you replied to and then quoted me.......lol

I don't need to pick the subject apart any further with the OP. It'd be a bit unfair as I don't consider her up to it.

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RE: Humiliation by name calling - 2/1/2010 2:53:06 PM

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I think you are ........ as you replied to and then quoted me.......lol

You can think what you want. I can guarantee you I was not. Take it or leave it :-)

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RE: Humiliation by name calling - 2/1/2010 3:24:35 PM

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I think you are ........ as you replied to and then quoted me.......lol

You can think what you want. I can guarantee you I was not. Take it or leave it :-)

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Thank you for the permission, the clarification and the instruction.

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RE: Humiliation by name calling - 2/1/2010 3:25:44 PM

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X9H_cI_WCnE

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RE: Humiliation by name calling - 2/1/2010 3:53:17 PM

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I think you are ........ as you replied to and then quoted me.......lol

You can think what you want. I can guarantee you I was not. Take it or leave it :-)

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Thank you for the permission, the clarification and the instruction.

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You are quite welcome :-)

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RE: Humiliation by name calling - 2/1/2010 4:05:32 PM

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I think you are ........ as you replied to and then quoted me.......lol

You can think what you want. I can guarantee you I was not. Take it or leave it :-)

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Thank you for the permission, the clarification and the instruction.

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You are quite welcome :-)

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RE: Humiliation by name calling - 2/1/2010 5:22:05 PM

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i have seen a Dom be so absusive that his sub was shaking, crying her eyes out. i became very upset and i was told by a friend that she enjoys this. The sad part being was that she was very fat and not attractive at all. Which he kept pointing out. He said so many awful things to her that like you said cannot be healthy for anyone.

Nods. I've met sub women like that before. I don't know how they do it/like it either, as I couldn't bear that intensity. But I do know one thing: they do like it and in fact seek it out. One woman I knew, besides being overweight, older, and not too appealing feature-wise, also had false teeth, and she'd take them out on purpose to make herself look uglier. She'd post very unflattering pics of herself online as well.

A dominant I used to know had a fetish for such women, he kind of collected them, in fact. He was personable and not unattractive, he could have dated other types. But he preferred women who liked to be made unattractive or who already were that way. He'd make them wear ridiculous amounts of clown makeup to heighten the effect.

It's a special sort of fetish I think. I can get into VA a little bit, but when it ventures into the cruel and hits on areas I'm insecure about, I find nothing sexy about it. Yet I know some others do, in fact revel in it--even though they might seem to be having a hard time in the moment. The world is a strange place.

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RE: Humiliation by name calling - 2/1/2010 5:46:39 PM

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And I can tell you that enemas are totaly wrong. Even when I think of that cunt Aileen as tubgirl it creeps me out.

I can say something like, no one really enjoys that. But I would be wrong, just as the OP was wrong in her statements.

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RE: Humiliation by name calling - 2/1/2010 6:00:13 PM

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A dominant I used to know had a fetish for such women, he kind of collected them, in fact. He was personable and not unattractive, he could have dated other types. But he preferred women who liked to be made unattractive or who already were that way. He'd make them wear ridiculous amounts of clown makeup to heighten the effect.

I say Goddam!!! there is something kind of sickly hot about this. Just debasing a woman or person till there is nothing left. you have removed any form of dignity or shred of self respect that they might have left.

"You are gross and ugly and now just you look at you, for Chrissake, you look like a fucking clown."

I am smiling while I type this but there is something very odd and fascinating about a person that would get off on this type O' thang.

Caringandreal, thank you for bringing this to our attention and illuminating the world to your kinks...It took strength.

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RE: Humiliation by name calling - 2/1/2010 6:11:09 PM

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Send in the clowns...

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RE: Humiliation by name calling - 2/1/2010 7:15:50 PM

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Level?... that is creepy.... yet oddly hot.

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RE: Humiliation by name calling - 2/1/2010 7:19:23 PM

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Look out Level, Fejj is looking for students of bdsm to mentor. I think he likes you....

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RE: Humiliation by name calling - 2/1/2010 7:36:49 PM

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He's a dirty filthy whore

..or so I've "heard"

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RE: Humiliation by name calling - 2/1/2010 10:00:23 PM

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I agree with OP. I don't quite understand this either. I understand "dirty talk" like being called cunt, slut, etc.

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RE: Humiliation by name calling - 2/2/2010 12:44:50 PM

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I can't stand even the most playful, tender, silly little "Come here, slut" or anything of the sort. I was sexually abused a long long time ago and those sorts of names - slut, whore, whatever - were rather a major part of that whole experience. The associations will never go away completely, although I've come to terms with it and the only problem I have is when my Lord says those words in association to me. It doesn't anger me, it hurts me deeply and he knows this and has never once forgotten, no matter how deep into 'dom-space' he gets. It's one of the reasons I love and trust him so much.

Humiliation by name-calling has more to do with taboo things, I think, as I'm sure others have said a million times by now in this thread. For my Lord and I, the 'names' he uses in disapproval for me are "bad girl", and "brat". If I'm good I get called "pet", "puppy", "good girl", "my Rose", etc. Neither of us feels like anything else is needed, and he gets just as turned on by calling me a brat as another Dom would by calling his sub a slut. We both know what I am and what I am not and what I can be made to be, and he uses that knowledge to push my limits without breaking my spirit. I love him all the more for it.

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