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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/14/2006 9:17:20 PM   
michaelGA2


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Status: offline 		i prefer to think of it as realism

this way i'm not a doormat with false hopes.


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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/14/2006 9:20:50 PM   
ArchangelMichael


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ORIGINAL: truesub4u

As in other post... I've said it once.. I'll say it again..

I am not changing my name just because there are those that can't stand to see "True" or "Real" in a name and or profile. I'm true to me... and the one I serve.... and that's all that matters...



Good. Don't change it. You shouldn't have to. You're right. Being true to yourself is all that matters. And when you find the connecting piece to your puzzle, I know you will be true to them as well. Never live your life for other people, unless you've entered into a consensual D/s or M/s relationship with them.


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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/14/2006 9:41:49 PM   
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So who deserves this kind of "wrath?"  Agreed, no one
 Glad we agree, and thanks for correctly spelling wrath for me.
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They don't say more than true.  Consistent with fact or reality says a bit more, but still, a man looking for kinky sex in a submissive way is consistent with reality.  Depending on your definition, maybe more bottom, but CM does not have that option.
A man looking for kinky sex but has zero interest in submitting, is not a submissive.   What is sex in a submissive way?
I'm okay with labels, and don't think bottoms are less important than submissives, but if I have my druthers I'll take the submissive who is honest about wanting to submit and have sex rather than the bottom.  
 
There is nothing ambiguous "to me" when Samwhiplash says
quote:

The majority of emails I get are do-me lists (even tho I clearly outline that I am looking for a LTR and dont play casually), and the people with these sub profiles are not sub at all - just guys looking for kinky sex.
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I just thought some were undully unkind/sarcastic just because she used "true."   M

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/14/2006 9:47:32 PM   
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that's so deep!.

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/14/2006 10:09:07 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		I didn't know that it was a sign of being unsubmissive to have a strong interest in kinky sex....OMG I must be a fake sub myself!!!!! What a revelation, I am not supposed to enjoy the kinky things a dom can do it me but just suck it up in my "true" submissive way.... what was I thinking enjoying kinky sex!

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/14/2006 10:16:13 PM   
DesertRat


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ORIGINAL: Samwhiplash
Where are all the true subs hiding? Maybe in other countries?


I don't know the whereabouts of the true guy subs, but one of the world's truly great girls is lying next to me right now, happily asleep. It took awhile to find her, but she was out there and was worth the wait.

Best to you,

Bob

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/14/2006 11:13:38 PM   
cacodylic


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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji
Quick explanation: My entire post was somewhat fictional. 

phucking phictional --- just phine!

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/14/2006 11:18:33 PM   
Dustyn


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ORIGINAL: Phoenixandnika

A true sub is that like a real rolex or a real goochie?
 
Phoenix's Nika



You mean "real" subs have designer labels on them? LOL

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/14/2006 11:20:46 PM   
cacodylic


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Status: offline 		There are very few "true" subs [as defined by the unidimensional dom/mes]... but plenty of us "do-me" subs, "wankers," "kinkie pigmale perverts", real human beings, etc. with ideas/wants/needs of our own... get used to it!
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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/14/2006 11:22:23 PM   
Dustyn


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ORIGINAL: RamaLlama

I seldom ever come across a boy who can even write a complete sentence. I'd be shocked to hell if I ever found a bitch that can both spell and obey. I don't want to dominate piece of shit little boys. I want to dominate intelligent, powerfull men. I want to break the warriors; but it seems they don't exist.
As for capable Mistresses, they do indeed exist, I have the honor of serving some very worthy Women.



Warriors do indeed exist, even in this day and age of dishonorable combat.  99 out of 100 times, though, they are either switches or dominants, so "breaking them" may simply not be feasible.  But anything is possible, I suppose.

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/14/2006 11:24:46 PM   
CmotDribbler


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sab

Mines home in Canada - and you can't have her. ;) 


:D :D love them Canadian Subs!


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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/15/2006 12:05:42 AM   
ArchangelMichael


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ORIGINAL: nicolerose

that's so deep!.



Thank you. My sixth grade teacher once told me that still waters run deep. I didn't understand what she meant back then, but I do now.


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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/15/2006 5:15:27 AM   
Veryfewcan


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ORIGINAL: Samwhiplash

Ive been a member of collarme for months and months now. Being one of a very small handful of Dommes in Ireland... I get a good amount of emails from Irish subs..... but the Irish sub standard is very poor. The majority of emails I get are do-me lists (even tho I clearly outline that I am looking for a LTR and dont play casually), and the people with these sub profiles are not sub at all - just guys looking for kinky sex.

Where are all the true subs hiding? Maybe in other countries?

Truth be told, the majority of guys; no matter what country it is; are looking for kinky sex. Tis a shame really. If they would take time to understand the lifestyle; perhaps they would better understand themselves.

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/15/2006 5:25:14 AM   
angelface183


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ORIGINAL: truesub4u

"I'm true to me... and the one I serve.... and that's all that matters... "
                                                   *****
That should be what it is all about...case closed.  It does not matter what someone else thinks is "true" as long as the parties involved are satisfied.
 
To the OP, most people on this site are "true", it is just that not all of them will fit the criteria that you are looking for.  Heck a great deal of the Doms on here do not meet my expectations or criteria, but I would never think that it was THEIR issue.  It is simply a matter of taste.
 
Good luck to you and be specific about what you are looking for, perhaps you may find it!


(damn!  can't figure out how to properly use the "quote" feature!)

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/15/2006 9:55:45 AM   
FirmhandKY


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Status: offline 		I would imagine that a woman - a domme - could well use a man's desire for kinky sex to find out if he may have other, deeper submission desires than just in sex.

I can remember when I was (quite) young, as a horny young male.  Men will often do all kinds of things to get sex.

And they might even learn to like some of the things that they are "forced" to do, for the right domme. 

FHky

< Message edited by FirmhandKY -- 5/15/2006 9:56:48 AM >

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/15/2006 11:14:52 AM   
HalloweenWhite


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Status: offline 		Ive been a member of C.M for about a year or so and I just think youve been either a bit unlucky, not online enough, not posted enough by way of interaction, or not been here long enough to get known. I think a lot of people come online because they think its easier to find what/who they want, youre running into them a bit, its a part of online life, I think. Have you tried local munches? are there any fetsh fairs or Demo's you could go to to get known?. Happy huntin'.


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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/15/2006 1:03:12 PM   
NikkiAnn


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Status: offline 		Takes step forward with head lowered, drops to hands and knees,  makes no eye contact, and mumbles to Mistress, "I am sincere, Mistress"

Submissively,
Nikki Ann


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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/15/2006 1:56:17 PM   
Samwhiplash


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Status: offline 		ty to all those who have stepped forward and shown me that they have found the kind of sincere sub that I am looking for, it gives me hope.

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/15/2006 2:25:43 PM   
xxmstrchasxx


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Status: offline 		True subs huh?  Well, I have a sub named Ris but I have a true sub too.

Yep, went to the store, bought a blow up doll and gave her a name.  Just beat the hell out of them until they pop and then get a bicycle tire repair kit.  Hell, they'll last forever, won't say a word and they will do anything you want without question and are really a "true sub", whatever that is.

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/15/2006 3:37:47 PM   
Reflectivesoul


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ORIGINAL:MichaelGA2
just call them as i see them



and you wonder why you cant find anyone? Taking a page from your book aout calling it like its seen, you're no more than a disrespectful, whining, jackass and when things dont go your way you feel the need to submit everyone else to your whining. Buy a damn pacifier and shut up cause I personally dont care to hear it. Oh or better yet since there are no Mistressses here for you, click the off button on your computer terminal then proceed to stick it up your ass.

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