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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/15/2006 4:10:24 PM   
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Reflectivesoul,

You shouldn't hold back from saying what's on your mind LOL

Anyway, nice profile!


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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/15/2006 4:27:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Veryfewcan

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ORIGINAL: Samwhiplash

Ive been a member of collarme for months and months now. Being one of a very small handful of Dommes in Ireland... I get a good amount of emails from Irish subs..... but the Irish sub standard is very poor. The majority of emails I get are do-me lists (even tho I clearly outline that I am looking for a LTR and dont play casually), and the people with these sub profiles are not sub at all - just guys looking for kinky sex.

Where are all the true subs hiding? Maybe in other countries?

Truth be told, the majority of guys; no matter what country it is; are looking for kinky sex. Tis a shame really. If they would take time to understand the lifestyle; perhaps they would better understand themselves.



Us true subs understand the lifestyle quite well in fact. We just don't agree with your interpretation of what is true.


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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/15/2006 5:02:23 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Samwhiplash

Ive been a member of collarme for months and months now. Being one of a very small handful of Dommes in Ireland... I get a good amount of emails from Irish subs..... but the Irish sub standard is very poor. The majority of emails I get are do-me lists (even tho I clearly outline that I am looking for a LTR and dont play casually), and the people with these sub profiles are not sub at all - just guys looking for kinky sex.

Where are all the true subs hiding? Maybe in other countries?


I killed all of the true subs so all of us who are faking it can take over the world!!!!!!!!!!!  MWAAAHHAHA

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/15/2006 8:40:32 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: quietkitten

quote:

ORIGINAL: Samwhiplash

Ive been a member of collarme for months and months now. Being one of a very small handful of Dommes in Ireland... I get a good amount of emails from Irish subs..... but the Irish sub standard is very poor. The majority of emails I get are do-me lists (even tho I clearly outline that I am looking for a LTR and dont play casually), and the people with these sub profiles are not sub at all - just guys looking for kinky sex.

Where are all the true subs hiding? Maybe in other countries?


I killed all of the true subs so all of us who are faking it can take over the world!!!!!!!!!!!  MWAAAHHAHA


Typical female... faking it YET again... LOL

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 5/15/2006 8:53:39 PM   
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all the true subs are not hiding but there are a few that are hiding cause they are not ready to come out of the closet. there are not many "true subs" in Canada but there are a fair amount of us true subs/slaves around.

girl is from Canada but her family originates from the UK, Ireland and Scotland, and she has always been a slave and enjoys being one.

if You were to ask anyone in Canada who knows her as well as a few in the States who do know her, they will tell You that she is real, she is smart and all that other stuff. they know what she is like and what makes her tick, so to answer Your question:

"where are all the true subs?" well, You may have to weed out the good, the bad and the ugly...LOL

seriously though, keep trying and eventually You will find the one You want.

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/3/2006 6:16:40 AM   
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all i can say is im a true sub and always have been. to add, yes i have been to see Pro Dommes in the past, and i am not proud of that fact. if i had a play partner, Mistress, gf ? then i would not be with the pro Domme's. i have not seen a Pro in a very long time. i hope You still have hope Mistress Sam, as there is a sub out there for You.

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/3/2006 7:09:47 AM   
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My ass turns pink when I'm spanked, does that make me real, or is it Memorex?

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/3/2006 7:23:05 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Samwhiplash

Ive been a member of collarme for months and months now. Being one of a very small handful of Dommes in Ireland... I get a good amount of emails from Irish subs..... but the Irish sub standard is very poor. The majority of emails I get are do-me lists (even tho I clearly outline that I am looking for a LTR and dont play casually), and the people with these sub profiles are not sub at all - just guys looking for kinky sex.

Where are all the true subs hiding? Maybe in other countries?


Hi there neighbour.
You could always try Iceland :-) - lots of male subs uncollared over here.


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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/3/2006 7:25:55 AM   
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Here's an interesting spin...

has anyone considered that perhaps She isn't up to the "true subs" standards.. so they're steering clear of Her ?

T.R.

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/3/2006 8:16:43 AM   
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ORIGINAL: TolerableCruelty

Here's an interesting spin...

has anyone considered that perhaps She isn't up to the "true subs" standards.. so they're steering clear of Her ?

T.R.


And you know this how and why don't you then share it with the rest of the class - it's rude to shout "wolf" if there is none.


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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/3/2006 9:27:33 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Samwhiplash

Ive been a member of collarme for months and months now. Being one of a very small handful of Dommes in Ireland... I get a good amount of emails from Irish subs..... but the Irish sub standard is very poor. The majority of emails I get are do-me lists (even tho I clearly outline that I am looking for a LTR and dont play casually), and the people with these sub profiles are not sub at all - just guys looking for kinky sex.

Where are all the true subs hiding? Maybe in other countries?


Can't tell you where "true subs" are, but it would make sense that they would go where the greatest number of dommes are located.  I've known a few who have managed to expatriate to California and to Canada.
 
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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/3/2006 10:20:17 AM   
Calandra


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ORIGINAL: michaelGA2
we are always too far away. i think people thrive on distance...safer for them that way. i've been asking myself a similar question:
where are the "real" Mistresses?


Actually Michael, I live in the same town as you, have spoken with you on a couple of occasions, and you don't seem to recognize a good Mistress if she slapped you in the face (Oh, wait a minute, maybe I should slap you in the face - LOL)
 
The funny thing is, we Mistresses network... thats riiiight, we discuss subs we are impressed with and subs we wouldn't touch with a ten foot bullwhip. Even if one of us isn't what you're seeking, we might know someone who is...
 
Think about it and when you're ready to "shit or get off the pot" you let me know, 'kay sugar?

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/5/2006 6:27:15 PM   
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im afraid i couldnt disagree with You more TolerableCruelty
i think Mistress Sam is a wonderful person firstly. and an excellent Domme. Anyone who ever gets the chance to serve Her should feel blessed and lucky.
just my tuppence worth

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/5/2006 6:34:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: jamesthehumanrug
what's you're location !?!


As I recall, she was complaining about the lack of true male
submissive in Ireland in her post.

Maybe it is just me, but two things I look for in a submissive
are literacy skills and a short term memory.

But thats just me, and I could be wrong.

Sinergy

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/5/2006 6:39:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

i just call them as i see them


From what I am reading you are not seeing...

a)  Advice from people you ask it of.

b)  A Mistress who would live up to your standards.

But thats just me, and I could be wrong.

Sinergy

p.s. If what you are doing is NOT working, why dont you try doing something else?

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/5/2006 6:40:25 PM   
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Subway, they have a varity of subs.

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/5/2006 6:43:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ArchangelMichael

Thank you. My sixth grade teacher once told me that still waters run deep. I didn't understand what she meant back then, but I do now.



Still waters also breed bacteria, mosquitos, and eventually turn into bogs as covered in other posts.

On a positive note, peat bogs give Scotch whiskey it's lovely flavor.

So I guess it all works out the way it is supposed to.

Sinergy 

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/5/2006 9:26:22 PM   
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At Sub-Way? Oooops wrong area not humor section....sorry

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/5/2006 10:00:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RamaLlama

I have the honor of serving some very worthy Women.



I also have the honor of serving some very worthy Women.  And, contrary to popular belief, they do NOT taste like chicken.

Oops, I thought this was the Dolcett board.  Nevermind.

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/5/2006 10:13:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kittensmailbox

Is there ONE straight down the line definition of what a true sub should be?


Yep, sure is.  Look in Webster's dictionary.  Right next to the entry for "True Sub" you'll find a picture of yours truly.

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