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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/5/2006 11:23:08 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Hey there Harry, you're in my space! 

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/5/2006 11:25:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Skuggi

And you know this how and why don't you then share it with the rest of the class - it's rude to shout "wolf" if there is none.



Hey now!!!!....Master SilverWolf and I might disagree with you there....lol

Owned... you and Harry... move the hell over and share....<grinzzzz>


< Message edited by NCSilverWolves -- 6/5/2006 11:27:01 PM >


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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/5/2006 11:29:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

Maybe you should write to the Truifying Institute of Submission of Ireland about their sinking standards.  Maybe their courses are not teaching the material properly, maybe their marketing is not so good.

We had the same issue a few days ago in New Mexico, and the Counsel of New Mexican Truity in Submission managed to rectify it within hours.  Or we stopped listening to the person bitching about it.  I don't remember which it ended up being.

Anyway, perhaps the best strategy is to whine about it on public forums to people who are powerless to do anything about your imagined problem, and if they did have the power to change it, they would probably still tell you to suck it up.

Let me know how it works out for you!

Yours,


benji




ROFLMAO
 
way to go benji
 
tali

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/5/2006 11:44:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NCSilverWolves

Owned... you and Harry... move the hell over and share....<grinzzzz>



There's always room for you, doll.  I wonder if  Harry likes apples..............

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/7/2006 10:53:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

Benji I don't see where anyone's post says someone ceases being a true submissive because he loves/enjoys sex.  Could you point that out?
I don't think that using a legitimate word like "true"  which the dictionary describes as
quote:

Consistent with fact or reality; Real; genuine.
  should incur a rath like this lady has simply by asking an honest question.   There is nothing in your post which says you are not a submissive
quote:

inclined or willing to submit to orders or wishes of others
  M 



My take on Benji's post is that it's impossible to use words such as "true" and "submissive" in a generalized way.  Everyone has their own perception of "reality" and what is "submissive".   For a Dom/me to find their own "true submissive" simply means they find the perfect fit for them. 

The "realities" of domination and submission vary widely.  The perception of servitude is very individualized.  For instance, the type of submission required of me, most perceive as simply being spoiled.  Regardless of how others view it, it is submission to what he wishes of me...which makes it "true" in nature, even if not in a stereotypical fashion.

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/7/2006 11:02:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

quote:

ORIGINAL: NCSilverWolves

Owned... you and Harry... move the hell over and share....<grinzzzz>



There's always room for you, doll.  I wonder if  Harry likes apples..............


awww you're also so good to me owned....


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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/7/2006 11:02:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

As to the shock collar...  *holds head up to make it easier to put it on*

Yours,


benji



Careful Benji...those shock collars really do hurt.  i once forgot i had my dog's collar in my hand and stepped over the line.  The shock travelled in waves through my entire body.  i was sore for a couple days.  Certainly not an experience i would willingly hold my head up for...and i happen to like a good degree of pain.  ~~babydoll

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/8/2006 1:54:36 AM   
becca333


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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

Samwhiplash, you will find on the forums that many do not like the word "True."  I'm still not certain why that is, because I understand "true submissive" to be one who is genuine in their submission and not a player who uses people.  We're quick to say HNG's and players, but damn if we say "true."  We get hung up on words a lot. lol. 



owned,

First off, I respect you, and usually agree with your posts.  But I want to mention something at this point, which is by no means personal, just a general statement.

I do not consider myself to be a player.  I consider myself, and have been told so in real life, to be a, as you describe it, "true" submissive.  I'm polite, obedient, don't top from the bottom, truly take pleasure from a Domme's or Mistress', or any person's pleasure.  That makes me true, right?

I need to serve. I need to submit.  I crave that feeling of power over me.  Still true?  Yeah, I would think.

I will only submit to someone who is compatible with me. Fun, fair, sadistic, enforces rules, respects limits etc....  Still true?  Sure.  People that don't want to be compatible, and have no limits, are commonly termed HNGs on here.

In the end, all I'm doing is using this Domme, this woman in charge, for my own pleasure.  No matter what my fetish is, I see to it that I get it.  A fetish of mine is no strings housework.  I will not hesitate to use a Domme for my own pleasure in that.  Something I don't care for is masks.  I do, however, enjoy being made to wear them, as I feel the Domme's power when I wear one.  Another fetish of mine.  Something I will not do is scat.  Hard limit.  No can do.

Does this clearly defined list of what I like and don't like make me a player, out to use people? 

Yet a clearly defined list involving I want sex and I want foot worship and I don't want housework; does that make me a player?

Different fetishes, each has a match in the world.  So who is true?

Now, I'm the first to pounce on someone in the forums, usually just for poorly thought out posts, or general idiocy.  But your fetish is as okay as mine, and at the end of the day, we are each out for our own pleasure, however obtained.

So define a true sub again?  lol

Again, nothing personal, but one of the reasons I hate that word.

Yours,


benji


You're smart, you're funny, and you do housework?

For you, I'd switch!

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/8/2006 4:58:23 AM   
keme


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ORIGINAL: Reflectivesoul

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ORIGINAL:MichaelGA2
just call them as i see them



and you wonder why you cant find anyone? Taking a page from your book aout calling it like its seen, you're no more than a disrespectful, whining, jackass and when things dont go your way you feel the need to submit everyone else to your whining. Buy a damn pacifier and shut up cause I personally dont care to hear it. Oh or better yet since there are no Mistressses here for you, click the off button on your computer terminal then proceed to stick it up your ass.


umm oh my... *ducks*

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/8/2006 10:29:23 AM   
Dustee


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Where are all the true subs? We are trying like mad to avoid completely any individual who would utter as (well, let me be kind and call it "undeducated") a statement as "where are all the true subs?" ;)

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/8/2006 10:32:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50

quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

Alright, I'll post one if someone tells me how.

Yours,


benji


On pins and needles, waiting to see a pic of you.





i'm waiting too benji.........................pleeeeeaaaasssssssseeeeee post that pic

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RE: Where are all the true subs? - 6/8/2006 11:34:24 AM   
Sub03


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Is a true sub  

I make my Master happy at least so i must be true.

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