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Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/22/2012 3:35:01 PM

belgiansubmale

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Is there any possibility to rule out these dommes that only want to get payed or be 'tributed'.
How about a possibility to rule out these money grabbing underaged would be dommes?

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/22/2012 3:39:18 PM

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Sure - contact your local legislature and file for a petition. Im sure they can get a bill started with enough signatures.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/22/2012 3:39:58 PM

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Yes. It's called the Hide feature and here's how it works.

When you come across a profile that is of either a fin or pro, you click the little button that says "hide". This will remove that profile from you ever having to view it again if you do not want to.

(I'm actually waiting to see if I get called condescending for that one, too.)

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/22/2012 3:44:05 PM

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If they are legitimate ly underage, report them immediately. That said, how can you determine that?

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/22/2012 3:50:09 PM

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References.

Next.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/22/2012 3:55:20 PM

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i'd ban any fin domme or any of these Pro Dommes. Service is lousy and they just spoil it for the real Dommes who are in it for the pleasure of domination. Why can't the moderators just delete all profiles of these 'Pro financial dommes'?

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/22/2012 3:56:31 PM

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Why dont they just delete cry babies like youreself?

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/22/2012 4:03:37 PM

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i'd ban any fin domme or any of these Pro Dommes. Service is lousy and they just spoil it for the real Dommes who are in it for the pleasure of domination. Why can't the moderators just delete all profiles of these 'Pro financial dommes'?

How do you know service is lousy? Did you ever stop to think that professionals in this field is just like any other profession? Some are great and some aren't. Even doctors have somebody that is at the bottom of the class. Same thing.

A lot of pros (in this country, anyway) are actually very reputable members of the BDSM community. A number are very active within the leather community. I've sat in a few classes that were given by pros, Myself. (A few have sat in My demos as well.) If it wasn't name dropping, I'd mention quite a few professionals who have been members on this site that are some of the best in the business.

The great thing about this site is that people get to use it for their own purposes. You are here to find a Dominant woman for a relationship and/or play. Nothing wrong with that. At the same time, if it's cool for you to be here for that purpose, you have to accept that other people have other reasons to be here. For example, I'm not here to date. By your standard, even though I'm not a pro, since I'm not here to date, does that mean that I shouldn't be here, either?

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/22/2012 4:04:01 PM

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Sigh.... i thought lifestyle was not about money....

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/22/2012 4:06:07 PM

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I think one has the right to chose. Why not make a distinction between the two. If you want to pay for it, that is OK, but if you are just looking for a Domme, then I think you should be able to make a choice.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/22/2012 4:11:51 PM

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Sigh.... i thought lifestyle was not about money....

What made you think that? Oh - I forgot, its probably because youre broke.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/22/2012 4:19:17 PM

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I think one has the right to chose. Why not make a distinction between the two. If you want to pay for it, that is OK, but if you are just looking for a Domme, then I think you should be able to make a choice.

Aren't you making a choice if you use the hide feature?

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/22/2012 4:26:25 PM

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Money slaves have as much right to their kink as you or me. Ignore and move on.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/22/2012 4:32:44 PM

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Is there any possibility to rule out these dommes that only want to get payed or be 'tributed'.
How about a possibility to rule out these money grabbing underaged would be dommes?

Eureka. At last, after ten years loitering on here, I read an original post on a subject that's never been discussed.
Kudos to you, my man. I was teetering on the edge about ready to give up hope. Now, with this breath of fresh air to sustain me, I may just last another decade.
I am so very grateful. So grateful in fact, that if you send me your bank account number, I'll be delighted to make a hefty deposit

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/22/2012 4:34:22 PM

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Oy feck!! Is it THAT time of WEEK again? Another day, another whiner.

OP, you make your own choice. If you don't like someone's profile, don't respond to it. Simples.

Why doesn't CM delete pro/fin profiles? Because they are just as welcome here by the site owners as you are. Don't like it, ask for your money back and ffs, stop whining!

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/22/2012 5:05:25 PM

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Why not make a distinction between the two. If you want to pay for it, that is OK,
but if you are just looking for a Domme, then I think you should be able to make a choice.

Then by your logic, we should also have a category for men that feel their kinks should
be catered to. For free.

Right?

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/22/2012 5:23:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: belgiansubmale

Is there any possibility to rule out these dommes that only want to get payed or be 'tributed'.
How about a possibility to rule out these money grabbing underaged would be dommes?

There are so many of those profiles because somewhere along the line men are giving those women money. If you have a problems with financial Dommes how about taking it up with the men who are paying them and thereby making them a hot commodity? If no men were paying these women they wouldn't be around.

The lifestyle might not be about money to you...but it certainly is about money to many others. You cannot decide what the lifestyle is for others, therefore the financial Dommes are a part of life. Get used to it.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/22/2012 8:02:39 PM

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It's more complicated than that, though.

I consider myself a (novice) lifestyler. I don't do kink for money, I do it for my own satisfaction. That said, I'd still be willing to take on a financial submissive or two - because the idea of extorting men out of their money is sexually arousing for me. I'd probably get something out of a real-time session using Monopoly money, albeit not as much. I've considered stripping as a way to somewhat indulge myself, since I think I could spin it in such a way that I could make it line up with my kinks and give me the power trip I love.

I don't make a big deal out of it because it's not one of my "main" kinks and because I have a lot of things I'd like to be doing other than sort through all of the messages from people asking for a version of financial domination that does nothing for me (blackmail), are inconsiderate twats, or who flee right after I wave at them on cam to verify myself, but I don't think money makes it inherently "pro" or "non-lifestyle." I think it depends on the motivations behind wanting that money.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/23/2012 1:36:10 AM

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You know, I find this interesting. I do not consider myself to be all findom, but I do not do anything without some sort of tribute. Why? Because there is just something about another being willing to completely give in to his Miss. If you really think about it, if you were to say you were a sub and willing to do ANYTHING to make your Miss happy, would that not be included? Just think about it. Not to mention, receiving gifts, tributes, surprises, etc., is my BIGGEST turn on. Online and in person. It shows me commitment, and adoration. Which is something that truly gets me off. Yes there are some that are in the lifestyle solely for the intention of getting paid, but so what? It's their life to live, their choices, THEIR CAREER. Big deal. Do you not get paid to do a "job?" That is their JOB. Get over it.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/23/2012 6:20:24 AM

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Yes. It's called the Hide feature and here's how it works.

When you come across a profile that is of either a fin or pro, you click the little button that says "hide". This will remove that profile from you ever having to view it again if you do not want to.

This.

OP,
You wouldn't believe how many times I hit the hide button. Each time I log onto CM and see a new profile of a 19 year old "princess" who is looking for "ATM piggies", I simply hit the "hide" button, and I never see that profile again.

IMO, that's much more fair than denying all of those financial Dommes access to the site. After all, this is a perfect place for them to look for "pay piggies". If I were a financial Domme, I'd certainly have a profile here.

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