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ORIGINAL: Proprietrix


I’m sorry, but my first thought was...

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ORIGINAL: slavekyle

Well i am quite sorry that most all the Women seem to find it hard to imagine that a man might love cats. 

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ORIGINAL: slavekyle

Well i am quite sorry that most all the Women seem to find it hard to imagine that a man might love cats. 

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ORIGINAL: JohnWarren
I'm a guy who loves cats.  They are a bit gamy and older ones can be tough, but if you chop the meat finely and use a tomato sauce, they are wonderful.

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ORIGINAL: marieToo

I read every word of the post and its dripping with amatuer romance novel drivel.

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Well i am quite sorry that most all the Women seem to find it hard to imagine that a man might love cats.  Perhaps if i invited You all to my office at work to show You all the photos of my kids?  The three who have passed away and whom i still mourn each time their birthday comes up or their "death-date" hits?  Or perhaps the photos of the two current ones will do the trick - one of wich is sleeping in a small corner of my computer chair with her paw on my leg as her way of saying she loves to be next to me.  When i chose Vixen from the 30 or so kittens at a humane society 2 counties away (about 45 miles) the first thing she did was to reach up at me and almost "hug" my neck with her paws to show she liked me.  Can any of Y/you imagine a grown 40 year old nearly crying?  Guess not.  Guess it's also impossible for a man to love cats too - and to love kids.  Guess it's all about being "manly" and cats are not manly - but dogs are!

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ORIGINAL: Evanesce
Yanno, I have three cats, and I love them with all my heart.  In fact, I could show you equally adorable photographs and tell you equally touching stories of my own "babies."  But if someone were to call me and tell me they were having temper tantrums and I needed to come home and deal with them, I'd be telling that someone to get a grip.  In fact, when I go on vacation, my cats stay home with the birds, someone checks on them every couple days, and they do just fine.  But when I'm home, they follow me around the house just like the dogs do.
 
To me, the fact that you left a "first date" with someone to go tend to cats that were neither in danger nor ill is just a little weird, and if I had been the Domme in question, your leaving would have been the end of it.  I wouldn't even have bothered keeping up the facade of emails and phone calls.

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ORIGINAL: indenturedslave
This being said, I also found it interesting that his former Mistress suddenly appeared and that her only posts just happen to be on this particular thread.

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ORIGINAL: QueenVanessa

Ah yes. And herein lies the troubles with most of the people on this website. Everyone else is wrong. Only they are right.

Umm…
HE (you?)asked our opinions.
WE gave our opinions.
I don’t understand why you’re getting on this "Everyone thinks they are right and others are wrong." kick.
If he (you?) didn’t want to hear the opinions of others… why ask?
He specifically asked us what we thought and we told him. That has nothing to do with people saying "I’m right and you’re wrong." It has to do with people saying "Since you asked what I think, here’s what I think."

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Only in here do we see that Dominants can no longer tolerate ex-slaves and how it would be so wrong to jump to the defense of one. Why? Because in here they are but meat to be used and discarded after finished.

No one said anything about ex-slaves, using slaves, or discarding slaves… except you.
People were talking about sex fantasies and cats. Are you perhaps personalizing other people’s comments?

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Yes, this is the true world of BDSM now thanks to people like this. "All men are liars." And lest we not forget that "all men are doormats" too.

Again, these are your words, not ours. Please point me to anyone besides you who said that men are liars and doormats. In case you didn’t read this thread, I reiterate, the rest of us were talking about sex fantasies and dates being interrupted with phone-calls from cat-sitters.

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Most of you in here are not worthy to have this slave's tongue grace your filthy crap-covered boots, let alone wait on you hand and foot.

And that’s A-OK because most of us have made it abundantly clear that we think the guy is full of shit and has his priorities misplaced.

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You want pack mules, not real men who have emotion and feeling.

Personally, I want both.  I can’t speak for the other ladies.

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You crave yes bois and not men as slaves who watch over you like a mother might her young fledgling.

(Actually, boi refers to a specific gender orientation. Educate yourself.)
slaves who watch over me like a mother? Hell no. I don’t need mothered by my slaves. If anything, it might be a little bit of the other way around. Really, I have no clue where you get this whole impression based on us saying we don’t want masturbation novels and romantic weekends interrupted by pets.

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This is all about power and nothing about people.

Funny, I was under the impression it was about both.

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And to far too many it is about getting your rocks off and not about learning how to create gems out of mere rocks.

Exactly.... As we saw with the OP’s diatribe about orgasms, pussy licking, anal worship, and description about his erect penis… You hit the nail on the head. To some people this really is about getting their rocks off.

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So crawl back to your fantasy land of make believe where you are superior and all men drool at your boots. You are not lifestylers. You are just users.

I’d advise the OP to do the same.

It was a nice attempt at being the white knight for the poor little horny disillusioned subbie. (Or a second user ID to defend your own post in the first place.) Hopefully it impressed him (which I’m sure was your goal), because it surely didn’t impress us.

And here lies the root of it all - the OP is only making it harder on himself to find a decent Mistress. It really doesn't affect us one iota whether he finds his lady or not. Even those of us Mistresses who are cat lovers simply can't realte to someone who not only has misplaced priorities, but comes into the Mistress forum and starts insulting Mistresses and then being overly defensive.

How's that working out for ya?

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And what were you doing, answering your cell phone in the middle of that hot scene, anyway?