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RE: Getting Over a Domina's Heartbreak? - 6/27/2006 8:46:52 AM

NINASHARP

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ORIGINAL: QueenVanessa

Oh yes, you've got me there. Yes I spent many months perfecting a different writing style, stealing photos from someone's personal website, and run back and forth between different computers answering your filth messages while the other computer keeps my 'real' name logged in. Yes, I have as big of a schlong as you do, TexasMaam. So come clean and admit you too are a shemale

Actually, this is quite accurate. I am learning to read profiles here, before responding to a thread. When I read your profile it indicated to please read the journal so I did. In the last two entries you went on a rant bashing those Mistress's here, and those who are 75% trash who float in and out of the websites like this one, because nobody will "e-mail" or wants your former cuck slavekyle, and I quote "Seems that the Women up there in the North (Ohio and Michigan) are just pathetic", and frankly when I compared your last two journal entries, which was promoting slavekyle, and to the writing styles of the OP in this thread, it is clear that you are one in the same. There is a certain style one will try to covet while trying to pull off being two different people, and you did that carefully at first, but the over use of hyphens in your journal and in the OP is a dead give away.

Sorry to all those who participated in this thread, I have the poor taste of calling someone out, but I call them like I see them and I know it is not becoming, but it is also what I am paid to do in my r/t job. Yeah Queen/kyle I am one of the rare that are not looking for the rich subbies, and am capable of working!

Nina

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RE: Getting Over a Domina's Heartbreak? - 6/27/2006 10:14:22 AM

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Hmmm. Why is it the "right thing" to do? Lots of us don't have ill feelings towards anybody (not even the guy who left mid-scene with a Domme to tend to his cats... maybe we don't believe it, or think it was a pretty dumb thing to do, but I don't see any ill feelings). The only ill feelings being expressed have been by yourself, and now you want the whole thread deleted... hmmm, must have shown some true colors, eh?

Anyway, I do NOT think that this whole thread was without a point. If nothing else, there's actually a very good lesson here. Domme's are PEOPLE too... this is real life, and real people, she's not an object that a sub can just use and run off, and if he treats her like that, he can expect just what he got... to be cast off, without further explanation or communication. If there was an injured party at all, I'd say it was the Domme, and seems like most posters here (except yourself) agree with that.

Maybe next time slavekyle will show better manners. You could learn some too.

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ORIGINAL: QueenVanessa
Hey, Moderator 11? Do you think you could just sack this thread now? I think the point's been hammered into the ground and all that is happening now is a lot of ill feelings towards posters. Just do us all a favor and delete it, okay? From one woman to another; do the right thing and 86-it.

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RE: Getting Over a Domina's Heartbreak? - 6/27/2006 10:26:18 AM

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Hey, hey! Play nice! :) There are a LOT of us that are not looking to be supported by our slaves/subs! Honestly, I think those looking for financial slavery, and pro Domme's, are in the minority, it's only that all those threads in the forums complaining about them makes it seem like there are more than there are.

I do require mine to contribute an equal share to the household budget, but since I'm looking for 24/7 that is fair, and keeps those looking for a meal ticket away. But I'm not looking for him to support me.... at least, not unless he wants to, but that's another story altogether ;)

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ORIGINAL: NINASHARPSorry to all those who participated in this thread, I have the poor taste of calling someone out, but I call them like I see them and I know it is not becoming, but it is also what I am paid to do in my r/t job. Yeah Queen/kyle I am one of the rare that are not looking for the rich subbies, and am capable of working!

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RE: Getting Over a Domina's Heartbreak? - 6/27/2006 10:33:02 AM

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Oh never mind

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RE: Getting Over a Domina's Heartbreak? - 6/27/2006 11:10:16 AM

NINASHARP

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ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn

Hey, hey! Play nice! :) There are a LOT of us that are not looking to be supported by our slaves/subs! Honestly, I think those looking for financial slavery, and pro Domme's, are in the minority, it's only that all those threads in the forums complaining about them makes it seem like there are more than there are.

I do require mine to contribute an equal share to the household budget, but since I'm looking for 24/7 that is fair, and keeps those looking for a meal ticket away. But I'm not looking for him to support me.... at least, not unless he wants to, but that's another story altogether ;)

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ORIGINAL: NINASHARPSorry to all those who participated in this thread, I have the poor taste of calling someone out, but I call them like I see them and I know it is not becoming, but it is also what I am paid to do in my r/t job. Yeah Queen/kyle I am one of the rare that are not looking for the rich subbies, and am capable of working!

I apologize to you, that totally came out wrong. You don't have to justify your contributions, Lady Morgan, I have the highest respect for you, and have learned a great deal from your posts. You are beautiful lady and any slave should be honored to serve in your household.

I was merely quoting what Queen Vanessa says in her journal.
"he was a QUALITY SLAVE and a DECENT male, unlike 75% of the trash that float in and out of websites like here. Sure, he was not rich — one of the qualities so many of you DEMAND anymore because you are not capable of working for yourselves"

He being slavekyle!

I am sorry if I offended anyone with my previous post.

Nina

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RE: Getting Over a Domina's Heartbreak? - 6/28/2006 11:49:29 PM

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Ok, on a constructive criticism note, find a Domina who understands and appreciates your holding your pets on a level higher or equal to her own immediate needs. Many Dommes, most vanilla people as well, cannot comprehend that you would wish to serve your Domme to the deepest of your capacity... unless one of your cats was not happy and needed your immediate attention. Essentially, by simply being 'on call' to your cats every whim, answering your phone in the middle of a scene (your first scene nonetheless), and excusing yourself before she was satisfied, made it very clear that she was not the top of your priority list. This is not to insult you or to suggest that your priorities or devotion for you pets is wrong or should change. It does suggest, however, that you should use that great empathy you have for your 'kids', and try to understand that you are sending mixed signals. Edit your profile and make it clear that your cats come first and have priority if an 'emergency' arises. Mention this and discuss this with any potential Domina before you meet. The last thing you need is to meet another person who does not share your values. And be aware, there may not be very many people who share your love of animals. It would be very tempting not to include that detail on your profile, but this is obviously a major aspect of your life and personality. This is a large world, and hopefully, you would meet a Domina who not only adores cats, but would have a few of her own children to add to your little family together. Instead of focusing on how inconsiderate you think her to be, realize that you were not compatible and that she found someone who met her needs and shared her priorities. Now it's time for you to try to do the same.

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RE: Getting Over a Domina's Heartbreak? - 6/30/2006 2:47:23 AM

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I am so sorry this had happen to you, one thing when she said that she understood about you cats being your babies and when you had to leave her so fast just when you were getting to really know one another you misunderstood her.

A woman and a woman who is a domme is highly ready to have a slave and when you keep your cats over her she felt that they were more important then she was. That is all it was you ran home to the cats and left her, plain and simlpy. If a slave i was meeting and i went out of my way to bewith him brought things so that we could explore one another and we had a great time, then you cell rings and you ran home to the cats sorryi do understand how animals are babies to many of us but it was your mistake dear you should had stay. you will find another but take you time you are still in love with her, do not look for someone just like her that will not work.
take care and i wish you luck
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RE: Getting Over a Domina's Heartbreak? - 6/30/2006 6:22:45 AM

MistressWolfen

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ORIGINAL: JohnWarren
I'm a guy who loves cats. They are a bit gamy and older ones can be tough, but if you chop the meat finely and use a tomato sauce, they are wonderful.

John,
Try the microwave. Absolutely delectable. It's just a bitch to get the fur out of, but I guess that's what we have slaves for!

Works much better if you gut them and skin them first. Tastes better too.

If you prick them all over with a fork they will not blow up and make a mess in the microwave *nods sagely and goes back to chuckling over the thread*

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