Proprietrix
Posts: 756
Joined: 7/15/2005
From: Ohio/West Virginia
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Vanessa, you’re getting carried away. You are assuming that each and every user here on collarme has the same background knowledge of this man, and the same invested interest in him that you have. This is the internet. We are all a bunch of total strangers. The only thing we can base our replies on are what information a poster gives us. The information that his OP gave us is that he chatted online with a woman, set up a date, engaged in some hot kinky sex (which he described in detail to us) and then left the hotel to go home to his cats. That is the extent of the information we were given so that is the information we responded to. Are you suggesting that we should have made up a background story for him or that we should have known what he spent the X number of years doing with his life before he decided to log on to collarme? We don’t know anything about this man other than what he has told us. What we responded to is precisely the information he provided.
What I personally responded to is the fact that, for some reason, this man felt compelled to write no less than 5 complete paragraphs that graphically depicted his sexual escapades with a woman he had met only hours earlier. He spent much more time describing in full detail his sexual arousal than he did explaining any background history about his pets.
Lest you forgot his original post, I will recap:
Introduction.
Paragraph 1: I met a woman online and we traded emails. PS I have a knack for creative writing fiction.
Paragraph 2: We chatted online more and decided to set up a meeting, a meeting in fact that had no expectation of sex or play.
Paragraph 3: We chatted online more and divulged that we were developing feelings for each other.
Paragraph 4: I got ready for the meeting and bought flowers.
Paragraph 5: I arrived. In tow I had stuff for BDSM play and an overnight stay.
Paragraph 6: We went to the park and the beach. I let her think I was cold and didn’t show my feelings.
Paragraph 7: We went out to dinner and watched sports on TV. I kept my hand on her leg to show her how I felt.
Paragraph 8: I withheld my feelings except a hug. I didn’t want to go too far too fast. We went back to the hotel and talked about a potential relationship.
Paragraph 9: She got dressed up in fetish wear, stripped me naked and I got "as hard and erect as a man can get".
Paragraph 10: She took some clothes off. I gave her a massage. She took off all her clothes except her panties and I massaged all of her body.
Paragraph 11: "She fingered my man pussy." and I took it well. She probed my ass and talked about using a strap-on on me.
Paragraph 12: I ate her pussy until she had an orgasm.
Paragraph 13: I kissed her so she could taste her pussy juice on my lips. I got a drink and got ready to eat her ass. My phone rang. My roommate was having issues with my cats. They were acting up.
Paragraph 14: I told her I had to leave. I kissed her goodbye and told her that next time I’d get a different sitter for the cats.
Paragraph 15: She told me to go ahead and go but next time stay longer.
Paragraph 16: I felt bad because I had packed all that BDSM stuff and overnight provisions but had to leave.
Paragraph 17: I brought more kink stuff that I didn’t mention earlier.
Paragraph 18: I called on the way home but got voice mail.
Paragraph 19: She emailed the next day telling me she’d left the hotel. I wrote back saying I’d do better next time.
Paragraph 20: We exchanged a few more emails.
Paragraph 21: She wrote me off and found someone else and it made me sad.
Paragraph 22: I see her on collarme and think about how she butchered my heart.
Paragraph 23: I posted in this forum because I believe in Female Supremacy.
Question: What should I do now?
Complaint: I can’t find a Mistress.
Comment: I had other Mistresses where I used to live.
Complaint: My former Domme and I agree that other Mistresses suck and use people.
Note: I’m sad and just a reminder I like to write fiction.
This man wrote about 20 paragraphs describing his situation. 5 of those paragraphs were graphic depiction of his sexual encounters, down to the finest details of describing his erect penis, how well he took things anally, and the woman's cum on his lips. Once, he said he left because the cats were acting up. He once asked an almost rhetorical question of "What should I do?"
His entire theme was that he had hot kinky sex with a woman he was falling for. He only mentioned in passing that his cats are important and gave absolutely zero background about any sot of traumatic pet owner crises. He stated upfront that he and his past Mistress looked down upon other women. He got a general response from the ladies here (whom he has already stated he believers are users) that we don’t care to hear his masturbatory creative writing. You come along and confirm everything he has said. He gets mad, hates all women, deletes his account, and refuses to speak to women again.
That completely sums up the information we know about this man. You stay here posting comments calling us all names, insulting us, defending him (with information we are totally unaware of) and telling us that we think this and that about slaves and men in general. You tell me that I believe all men think with their penis. 1. I did not ever say that. 2. The OP clearly shows that that belief would have some substance to it anyway. You talk as if we have chastised him and punished him, but really… we’ve never even met the guy. We just responded to the information he gave us. You tell me to learn the facts before giving opinion. He gave us 20 – 25 paragraphs of his facts, and then asked our opinion based on the information he provided. Are you saying that before people post and reply on an internet forum they should personally get a background history of the thousands upon thousands of other users? He chose to provide and leave out certain information. He chose to spend 5+ paragraphs graphically describing his sexual encounter and he chose to not provide an ounce of background history about himself.
We gave feedback provided on the information he gave us.
Then you come along and insult people and call them names for giving him opinions that he asked for.
For the life of me I simply do not understand where you are coming from.
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