Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: Respect


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Respect Page: <<   < prev  2 3 [4] 5 6   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: Respect - 6/6/2013 3:19:35 PM   
TheLilSquaw


Posts: 2340
Joined: 10/24/2012
From: Middle River, MD
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: HaveWhipWillTrav

Depending on the situation. But I am going from a pure never met the person before perspective.



Even if I have NEVER meet a person before that does not even guarantee my tolerance.

< Message edited by TheLilSquaw -- 6/6/2013 3:27:21 PM >

_____________________________

LilSquaw
Lifestyle & ProSwitch
Fetish Model, Producer, and Website Owner

http://www.clips4sale.com/69201
http://www.kinkbomb.com/studio/Sadistic_Babygirl_

(in reply to HaveWhipWillTrav)
Profile   Post #: 61
RE: Respect - 6/6/2013 3:21:30 PM   
SeekingTrinity


Posts: 1834
Joined: 5/29/2012
From: The 'burbs of Portland, OR
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: unsafenonconsent

Are you objecting to a world of black and whites because you don't want to stand by your own words? Or is that too black and white for you? If I'm acting like a teenager and you're so much better than me, why is it that you keep responding to my posts? Oh, never mind. I'm looking at your post count and your join date and I've figured you out entirely. Good luck with all that.


So I'm curious...what does a post count of 15 and a join date of 12-8-12 say about you if these are indicative of anything at all? Since you brought it up and all.

(in reply to unsafenonconsent)
Profile   Post #: 62
RE: Respect - 6/6/2013 3:26:38 PM   
TheLilSquaw


Posts: 2340
Joined: 10/24/2012
From: Middle River, MD
Status: offline
quote:


ORIGINAL: unsafenonconsent
Arguably, most people show respect for their employers, but it's a lucky few who actually feel respect for them.


I am NOT required to show respect to producers or photographers who hire me. In-fact showing them respect wont get me a call back or a good reference.

I am required to do my job.
I am required to act in a professional manner.
These things will get me a call back, it has gotten me repeat gigs.


I don't require models that I hire to show me respect. Them showing me respect wont get them a call back or a good reference.

I do require them to do the job they were hired to do.
I do require them to act in a professional manner.
These things will get help them get a repeat gig with me.





< Message edited by TheLilSquaw -- 6/6/2013 3:31:49 PM >

_____________________________

LilSquaw
Lifestyle & ProSwitch
Fetish Model, Producer, and Website Owner

http://www.clips4sale.com/69201
http://www.kinkbomb.com/studio/Sadistic_Babygirl_

(in reply to JeffBC)
Profile   Post #: 63
RE: Respect - 6/6/2013 3:36:04 PM   
DesFIP


Posts: 25191
Joined: 11/25/2007
From: Apple County NY
Status: offline 		Obviously unsafenonconsent will have no problem with a partner lying to him, cheating on him, stealing from him and giving him a std. Because those are the expedient things to do.

You ought to rewrite your profile young man, because it's asking for things you are incapable of recognizing, appreciating or returning.

_____________________________

Slave to laundry

Cynical and proud of it!


(in reply to JeffBC)
Profile   Post #: 64
RE: Respect - 6/6/2013 3:40:47 PM   
sexyred1


Posts: 8998
Joined: 8/9/2007
Status: offline 		These questions are rather esoteric.

I mean, you could deserve respect from here to eternity and not get it.

You could not deserve respect and get it.

If the question is on how you view yourself, why would anyone else's opinion about you deserving respect matter when it is within your own relationship and we don't know the story behind it.

If you have to ask if YOU deserve respect from how you see yourself, then no one can help you.

No matter what horrible things I go through, I know I deserve respect, within and outside of a relationship.

Like everyone else, role has nothing to do with it.

People get respect if their actions match their words in my mind.

(in reply to DesFIP)
Profile   Post #: 65
RE: Respect - 6/6/2013 3:47:46 PM   
tazzygirl


Posts: 37833
Joined: 10/12/2007
Status: offline 		There is no story behind this. Gesh.... Its a discussion question, one that I have thought about for a while.

quote:

I mean, you could deserve respect from here to eternity and not get it.

You could not deserve respect and get it.


I agree, both of those could happen. And?

It wasnt if I deserve respect... but how the one side of the kneel views the other within a relationship.

_____________________________

Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

(in reply to sexyred1)
Profile   Post #: 66
RE: Respect - 6/6/2013 4:19:46 PM   
JeffBC


Posts: 5799
Joined: 2/12/2012
From: Canada
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity
So I'm curious...what does a post count of 15 and a join date of 12-8-12 say about you if these are indicative of anything at all? Since you brought it up and all.

As if anyone cared what YOU think with your post count of 601 and your join date of 5-29-2012. If you serialize your join date and divide by your post count then add in the month and date of month you end up with 666. Did you REALLY think you were going to be able to hide the truth from us all?

PS: Where's that girl who was worried about posting because we sometimes shred newbies? I'm hoping she's reading this thread to see a great way for that to occur. Join the site and decry both honor and integrity then start making mysterious accusations based upon some sort of numerology. Whoever you were, if you're reading this, don't do that :)


< Message edited by JeffBC -- 6/6/2013 4:22:57 PM >

_____________________________

I'm a lover of "what is", not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality. -- Bryon Katie
"You're humbly arrogant" -- sunshinemiss
officially a member of the K Crowd

(in reply to SeekingTrinity)
Profile   Post #: 67
RE: Respect - 6/6/2013 4:33:31 PM   
tazzygirl


Posts: 37833
Joined: 10/12/2007
Status: offline 		Im falling behind... Im only at 621.... 690909090909090909

_____________________________

Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

(in reply to JeffBC)
Profile   Post #: 68
RE: Respect - 6/6/2013 4:53:25 PM   
SeekingTrinity


Posts: 1834
Joined: 5/29/2012
From: The 'burbs of Portland, OR
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC

As if anyone cared what YOU think with your post count of 601 and your join date of 5-29-2012. If you serialize your join date and divide by your post count then add in the month and date of month you end up with 666. Did you REALLY think you were going to be able to hide the truth from us all?



Oh noes! My secret is out. Curse you for spilling the beans, man who dares choose honor and integrity over expediency and half-assing it! No one would have ever known. That's it...no invite for you to my 4 horsemen of the apocalypse horse ranch this summer

(in reply to JeffBC)
Profile   Post #: 69
RE: Respect - 6/6/2013 5:08:34 PM   
littlewonder


Posts: 15659
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

Who deserves more respect, the top or the bottom?

~Top - I mean anyone in a dominant role, bottom - I mean anyone in a submissive role... sad I feel I have to point that out, but someone will ask


Neither. Both.

I don't automatically give respect to people. They get common courtesy. Respect is for those who earn it with me and those are few and far between. I can count the number on one hand who have respect from me. Those people I hold in high regard in my life.

I don't see respect as having anything to do with bdsm and everything to do with being an extraordinarily good person.




_____________________________

Nothing has changed
Everything has changed

(in reply to tazzygirl)
Profile   Post #: 70
RE: Respect - 6/6/2013 5:14:37 PM   
littlewonder


Posts: 15659
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

Neither... Respect is earned not deserved.


Deserves doesnt mean demand. As in, someone can deserve a promotion because they earned it.


Just because you earned it doesn't mean you deserve it.

I can earn a a position at work that pays more but if I came about it in a less than honest manner then I don't deserve it.

_____________________________

Nothing has changed
Everything has changed

(in reply to tazzygirl)
Profile   Post #: 71
RE: Respect - 6/6/2013 5:18:51 PM   
tazzygirl


Posts: 37833
Joined: 10/12/2007
Status: offline 		If you come about it in a less than honest manner, then you didnt earn it.

_____________________________

Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

(in reply to littlewonder)
Profile   Post #: 72
RE: Respect - 6/6/2013 5:26:47 PM   
JeffBC


Posts: 5799
Joined: 2/12/2012
From: Canada
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
If you come about it in a less than honest manner, then you didnt earn it.

Agreed. In that case you stole it.

I gotta argue a bit with KoM though... just because hey, that NEVER happens. I think that one can deserve respect after it has been earned. That formulation makes perfect sense to me. You still may or may not get it but if it's been fairly earned then it is fairly deserved. And yes, this situation can happen. I've gone to some lengths sometimes to earn someone's respect and it turned out to be a person who respected nobody. I still felt like I deserved it so I cut off all contact with such people.

_____________________________

I'm a lover of "what is", not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality. -- Bryon Katie
"You're humbly arrogant" -- sunshinemiss
officially a member of the K Crowd

(in reply to tazzygirl)
Profile   Post #: 73
RE: Respect - 6/6/2013 5:30:26 PM   
littlewonder


Posts: 15659
Status: offline 		not necessarily.

For example, let's say you scored a perfect score on a test so you could reach a certain level. At this point you earned it. But say there is a tie and you "persuade"someone to choose you over the other. It has now become less than deserving...but you still earned it.


_____________________________

Nothing has changed
Everything has changed

(in reply to tazzygirl)
Profile   Post #: 74
RE: Respect - 6/6/2013 5:32:47 PM   
Greta75


Posts: 9968
Joined: 2/6/2011
Status: offline 		Both deserve equal respect.

(in reply to Kana)
Profile   Post #: 75
RE: Respect - 6/6/2013 5:33:03 PM   
tazzygirl


Posts: 37833
Joined: 10/12/2007
Status: offline 		I still say you didnt deserve it. If you cannot get the position without tricks or "bribes" then your actions, in my view, are less than honorable and you didnt deserve the position.

_____________________________

Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

(in reply to littlewonder)
Profile   Post #: 76
RE: Respect - 6/6/2013 5:33:05 PM   
GotSteel


Posts: 5871
Joined: 2/19/2008
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC

quote:

ORIGINAL: unsafenonconsent
I'm looking at your post count and your join date and I've figured you out entirely. Good luck with all that.

OK, I just gotta ask because I'm dying of curiosity. What have you figured out from my join date and post count? What is it that I need "luck" with?

In the interests of full disclosure (and because I am a man of honor and integrity) does it change your calculations to know that I joined a few years before this account and there were a few thousand additional posts?


He's making a crack about you spending too much time on the interwebs.

(in reply to JeffBC)
Profile   Post #: 77
RE: Respect - 6/6/2013 5:34:09 PM   
tazzygirl


Posts: 37833
Joined: 10/12/2007
Status: offline 		Pft... mine is much, much, embarrassingly much higher... lol.. and he didnt make that correlation with me.

_____________________________

Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

(in reply to GotSteel)
Profile   Post #: 78
RE: Respect - 6/6/2013 5:49:06 PM   
JeffBC


Posts: 5799
Joined: 2/12/2012
From: Canada
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: GotSteel
He's making a crack about you spending too much time on the interwebs.

Ahhhhh... do people need "luck" to waste time on the internet? I find it rather easy actually. It's not like hitting an inside straight or something.


_____________________________

I'm a lover of "what is", not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality. -- Bryon Katie
"You're humbly arrogant" -- sunshinemiss
officially a member of the K Crowd

(in reply to GotSteel)
Profile   Post #: 79
RE: Respect - 6/6/2013 5:59:26 PM   
theshytype


Posts: 1600
Status: offline 		If I'm with someone, it's because I respect them and they respect me (among other things, like warm and squishy feelings).
Without mutual respect, both being equally deserving of it, I could not be in a relationship with that person.

(in reply to tazzygirl)
Profile   Post #: 80
Page:   <<   < prev  2 3 [4] 5 6   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Respect Page: <<   < prev  2 3 [4] 5 6   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.110