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ORIGINAL: GoddessManko

I wish this was twitter, I'd follow mummyman321's posts. :)

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And I informed them all I had been hospitalized and two dissappeared. One later told me it was because I clearly couldn't dominate him while in the hospital. The third was a truly wonderful man and he had flowers sent to my room. Granted I'm not involved in the local community so my knowledge is mostly limited to online and a lot comes from the forums, in which I rarely see sub men posting and if I do it seems they're wanking it while typing whatever they're saying lol. But many women post who seem truly dedicated and submissive. So I'm curious to know, do you think it's in men's nature to be truly submissive to a woman or is it all a sexual fantasy? Or is it just something that comes around once in a blue moon?

I know a woman who is a BDSM celebrity -- almost certainly a name you would know. She and I were talking one time, and she more or less said this.

"I know a lot of kinky people -- and I mean a LOT of kinky people. And 95% of them are fetishists, when you get right down to it. People actually looking for slavery are 5% at most."

So your 1 out of 3 is a pretty good record, frankly.

About the sub women on this board and elsewhere: the vast majority want to be submissive in the way they want to be submissive. For example, most, if ordered to peg the guy, couldn't/wouldn't do it. (You may have seen these threads; they come up from time to time.) So they aren't really looking to obey whatever order. Men tend to be more fetish-oriented, more specific-act-oriented than women, but sub women aren't any more "truly" submissive than sub men. The women just have different kinds of limits.