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RE: 50s style household - 6/5/2014 6:03:26 PM

BecomingV

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evesgrden

I wrote:
The race car is you, the finish line is surgery and everything else (energy spent on rage, wishing for a knight in shining armor, and wasting time paying attention to things or people that you have zero chance of controlling), be clear... those are indulgences that you are choosing INSTEAD of choosing to focus on the goal.

^^^That is how I ended my post. Bottom line, I'm challenging kittysbell to walk her talk, to do the parts she CAN do. Who are we to say that she shouldn't feel what she feels, want what she wants... miracles do happen. But, in my experience, they happen to people who take some action towards their own goals, first.

Also, I was responding to her pain and confusion and desperation. The list of points you posted... I read them, too. But, underneath all of that is a strong desire to be happy, at peace and loved - combined with a sense of helplessness. So, I thought I'd share some tips that have worked for others, that are free and can be done right now.

What she does with them... that's out of my hands.

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ORIGINAL: evesgrden

Becoming V, I think you're missing key elements of what kittysbell is seeking. It's not education.

She is seeking a lifestyle live in condition in which she will be educated, taken care of, and ultimately have her surgery provided for her.

This is not about skill acquisition, consider these excerpts from the OP

"relish in the protection of such a role. to be cared for,taught like a daughter".
"taking on such a project is not a lighthearted task,physical correction must always be the goal,and its costly. "

She wants a daddy/teacher, but only if he will provide for her and paying for her surgery must always be the goal. Not her skills. Not her service. Not his needs or desires. It's all about finding someone who will pay for her surgery.

Money for the surgery. In exchange for being a submissive maid-in-training with benefits.