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RE: At what age does one get to be a dominant? - 9/17/2016 10:26:34 AM

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I wonder how much he would charge me to be certified as a sub?

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RE: At what age does one get to be a dominant? - 9/17/2016 10:30:56 AM

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To me anybody who leads a relationship is a dominant. They may be good at it, or they may suck at it, but they are still the dominant. I also find it interesting that I have never seen anybody tell an 18 year old woman that she is too young to be a submissive; wonder why that is.

It's happened. It is not often, but it has happened.

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RE: At what age does one get to be a dominant? - 9/17/2016 10:32:13 AM

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I will have to take your word for it.

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RE: At what age does one get to be a dominant? - 9/17/2016 10:32:14 AM

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The class cost about $100 but if you pay another $100 you can use his submissive to practice all the techniques he teaches. You're supposed to bring your own submissive but I didn't have any. He teaches you how to be a Master.
@ OP. A man can learn how to become a Master by taking this seminar. If women doubt you are a Master you can show them the certificate.

If you have to show someone the certificate to prove that you are a dominant or a master, you aren't either one.

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RE: At what age does one get to be a dominant? - 9/17/2016 10:34:53 AM

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I find it amusing that we have an example of my question unfolding before our very eyes.

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RE: At what age does one get to be a dominant? - 9/17/2016 10:41:02 AM

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he's got to be pulling our leg

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RE: At what age does one get to be a dominant? - 9/17/2016 10:49:33 AM

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The class cost about $100 but if you pay another $100 you can use his submissive to practice all the techniques he teaches. You're supposed to bring your own submissive but I didn't have any. He teaches you how to be a Master.
@ OP. A man can learn how to become a Master by taking this seminar. If women doubt you are a Master you can show them the certificate.

You've got to be trolling. Do you see how ridiculous you sound? Bdsm isn't a course you can audit from community college. It's not a degree you earn at University. It's not a certificate you earn from some one day uber scam run by a con artist. You were played. A Master would have known that.

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RE: At what age does one get to be a dominant? - 9/17/2016 10:50:59 AM

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A Master would have known that.

You're setting the bar pretty low there

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RE: At what age does one get to be a dominant? - 9/17/2016 10:52:27 AM

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A Master would have known that.

You're setting the bar pretty low there

In his case it can't get much lower 😂😂😂😂

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RE: At what age does one get to be a dominant? - 9/17/2016 10:53:54 AM

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I find it amusing that we have an example of my question unfolding before our very eyes.

I find it terrifying. My trust issues don't seem so silly when I see crap like that.

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RE: At what age does one get to be a dominant? - 9/17/2016 11:09:11 AM

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Does the word "Cxxtxxxx ring a bell? Perhaps, Pxxx, by name?

We remember the same thread, I think.

I won't link it because I am not sure I am allowed and I have not had a mod clarify it for me.

But what a fucking trainwreck it was.

Ahhh... memories.

Yeah, I'm not on much anymore. I'll risk it. It was too damn funny.
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RE: At what age does one get to be a dominant? - 9/17/2016 12:01:23 PM

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A Master would have known that.

You're setting the bar pretty low there

The really worrying thing is that's still too high a bar for some of the self-styled tops around here.
Depressing or what?

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RE: At what age does one get to be a dominant? - 9/17/2016 12:02:44 PM

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Yeah, I'm not on much anymore. I'll risk it. It was too damn funny.
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RE: At what age does one get to be a dominant? - 9/17/2016 12:03:57 PM

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I find it terrifying. My trust issues don't seem so silly when I see crap like that.

Why? If a dominant has to show you some credentials to prove he is a dominant, that really is all you need to know.

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RE: At what age does one get to be a dominant? - 9/17/2016 12:24:35 PM

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Nope. Real thing. For $99.95'' this guy, (I can't recall if he really goes by "Richard" or not) will take you for some dumb-@ssed one day intensive, sanctioned by the public dungeon space, and give you some kind of certificate that you are a faux "Master".

It's not "dumb-ass" at all. What separates "Master" from "Dominant" is that a "Master" is able to "know." The Dominant doesn't take any training. For example, if you could just sit for 5 minutes and let go of all your thoughts you can be mindful. The Dominant doesn't do that. What separates the Master from the Dominant is his inner being. But you didn't know this, or other Dominants, because they didn't take the seminar.

I'm proud that I took the class. I'm proud that I've received a certificate that I've earned. It's the same thing as receiving training from any other venture, like dental assistant or physical therapy assistant. When you approach a submissive and show her the certificate, it gives her confidence in you as a Master.

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RE: At what age does one get to be a dominant? - 9/17/2016 12:32:13 PM

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The really worrying thing is that's still too high a bar for some of the self-styled tops around here.

Not all of whom are young

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RE: At what age does one get to be a dominant? - 9/17/2016 12:34:40 PM

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What separates "Master" from "Dominant" is that a "Master" is able to "know."

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

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RE: At what age does one get to be a dominant? - 9/17/2016 12:35:26 PM

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The really worrying thing is that's still too high a bar for some of the self-styled tops around here.

Not all of whom are young

Quite. You can at least hope some of the kids will grow out of it. The others, not so much...

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RE: At what age does one get to be a dominant? - 9/17/2016 12:41:44 PM

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When you approach a submissive and show her the certificate, it gives her confidence in you as a Master.

How many women has your certificate impressed, Master ilovestarbucks?

ETA: Does the Master who taught the class have a name, a website? He wasn't the Prince of Persuasia by any chance, was he?

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RE: At what age does one get to be a dominant? - 9/17/2016 12:42:10 PM

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Nope. Real thing. For $99.95'' this guy, (I can't recall if he really goes by "Richard" or not) will take you for some dumb-@ssed one day intensive, sanctioned by the public dungeon space, and give you some kind of certificate that you are a faux "Master".

It's not "dumb-ass" at all. What separates "Master" from "Dominant" is that a "Master" is able to "know." The Dominant doesn't take any training. For example, if you could just sit for 5 minutes and let go of all your thoughts you can be mindful. The Dominant doesn't do that. What separates the Master from the Dominant is his inner being. But you didn't know this, or other Dominants, because they didn't take the seminar.

I'm proud that I took the class. I'm proud that I've received a certificate that I've earned. It's the same thing as receiving training from any other venture, like dental assistant or physical therapy assistant. When you approach a submissive and show her the certificate, it gives her confidence in you as a Master.

You carry your certificate with you? Aren't you afraid it'll get ruined?
I framed mine. For an additional $65.99 I was able to get a license as well, which I can carry in my wallet.

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