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RE: ON C/S A REAL SHORTAGE OF - 10/12/2016 11:24:43 AM   
Greatlilbabygirl


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Status: offline 		Can't help but feel people who object to bisexuals do it because it bothers them on a personal level, not a rational one. Same level that bothers people when they find out I've been with non white guys. Pure discrimnation. And honestly someone with such a closed bigoted mind wouldn't be attractive to me anyway, so they can be miserable and complain about not finding anyone to meet their bigoted standards. Karma.

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RE: ON C/S A REAL SHORTAGE OF - 10/12/2016 11:35:17 AM   
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RE: ON C/S A REAL SHORTAGE OF - 10/12/2016 11:45:05 AM   
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Can't help but feel people who object to bisexuals do it because it bothers them on a personal level, not a rational one.

Oside gave a very real and rational reason for people not wanting Bi partners.

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ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl
Same level that bothers people when they find out I've been with non white guys. Pure discrimnation.

And who would be telling them? You??
Even less understanding of human nature.

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ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl
And honestly someone with such a closed bigoted mind wouldn't be attractive to me anyway,

And how would you know unless they told you??

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ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl
so they can be miserable and complain about not finding anyone to meet their bigoted standards. Karma.

Everyone has their preferences for whatever reason.
If you can't respect that at face value, you sure are a shallow person.


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RE: ON C/S A REAL SHORTAGE OF - 10/12/2016 11:59:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		I know this is a double standard but if a girl is bisexual that doesn't make her much different than a girl who is straight. But a man who is bisexual makes him very different than a man who is straight to me. It doesn't make me like them or not like them or anything like that, but it does effect whether I would ever get in a relationship with them other than friendship.

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RE: ON C/S A REAL SHORTAGE OF - 10/12/2016 12:00:57 PM   
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Then get an STD test. Should do that anyway. Safe sex is safe sex. Not a very rational or legit reason in my opinion. Women are just as vulnerable if engaging in unprotected anal sex. It's the anal that makes you more vulnerable to transmission.


I don't want to have to engage in safe sex and STD testing for the rest of my life with my partner. And even safe sex isn't 100% safe.


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RE: ON C/S A REAL SHORTAGE OF - 10/12/2016 12:01:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't see that the gender makes any difference.

Bisexual is bisexual, regardless of gender.


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RE: ON C/S A REAL SHORTAGE OF - 10/12/2016 12:05:19 PM   
Greatlilbabygirl


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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1


quote:

ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl
Can't help but feel people who object to bisexuals do it because it bothers them on a personal level, not a rational one.

Oside gave a very real and rational reason for people not wanting Bi partners.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl
Same level that bothers people when they find out I've been with non white guys. Pure discrimnation.

And who would be telling them? You??
Even less understanding of human nature.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl
And honestly someone with such a closed bigoted mind wouldn't be attractive to me anyway,

And how would you know unless they told you??

quote:

ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl
so they can be miserable and complain about not finding anyone to meet their bigoted standards. Karma.

Everyone has their preferences for whatever reason.
If you can't respect that at face value, you sure are a shallow person.



Wtf? Are you mental?

I have pics up of me, sometimes the men I've been in relationships are in them. I don't have to tell anyone.

Respect bigotry? Never ever will I do that. Never.

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RE: ON C/S A REAL SHORTAGE OF - 10/12/2016 12:06:27 PM   
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I don't see that the gender makes any difference.

Bisexual is bisexual, regardless of gender.


The US has a definite bias of gender when it comes to bisexuality.



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RE: ON C/S A REAL SHORTAGE OF - 10/12/2016 12:06:42 PM   
Greatlilbabygirl


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Then get an STD test. Should do that anyway. Safe sex is safe sex. Not a very rational or legit reason in my opinion. Women are just as vulnerable if engaging in unprotected anal sex. It's the anal that makes you more vulnerable to transmission.


I don't want to have to engage in safe sex and STD testing for the rest of my life with my partner. And even safe sex isn't 100% safe.


Why would you have to do it for the rest of your life? I'm very confused here.

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RE: ON C/S A REAL SHORTAGE OF - 10/12/2016 12:07:47 PM   
Greatlilbabygirl


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I don't see that the gender makes any difference.

Bisexual is bisexual, regardless of gender.


The US has a definite bias of gender when it comes to bisexuality.



That doesn't make it right. There was and largely still is a bias against interracial coupling, doesn't make it right.

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RE: ON C/S A REAL SHORTAGE OF - 10/12/2016 12:08:20 PM   
freedomdwarf1


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So you splash your pics all over the place so your partners know of every other person you played with??

I'm a little less public than you.
I don't have that sort of thing that others could see and judge me on.


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RE: ON C/S A REAL SHORTAGE OF - 10/12/2016 12:08:49 PM   
Greatlilbabygirl


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ORIGINAL: tamaka

I know this is a double standard but if a girl is bisexual that doesn't make her much different than a girl who is straight. But a man who is bisexual makes him very different than a man who is straight to me. It doesn't make me like them or not like them or anything like that, but it does effect whether I would ever get in a relationship with them other than friendship.


Why?

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RE: ON C/S A REAL SHORTAGE OF - 10/12/2016 12:09:50 PM   
freedomdwarf1


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Status: offline 		Interracial and bisexuality are different things.

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RE: ON C/S A REAL SHORTAGE OF - 10/12/2016 12:10:10 PM   
Greatlilbabygirl


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Ah, right.

So you splash your pics all over the place so your partners know of every other person you played with??

I'm a little less public than you.
I don't have that sort of thing that others could see and judge me on.



Lol. All over the place. You're funny.

All over the same places everyone else does. I'm not ashamed of my past relationships.

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RE: ON C/S A REAL SHORTAGE OF - 10/12/2016 12:12:05 PM   
Greatlilbabygirl


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Interracial and bisexuality are different things.

Duh. Doesn't make the reasons why one wouldn't like someone who had sex with a black guy any more or less reprehensible than the reasons why they wouldn't like someone who had sex with a certain gender. It's all discrimination. Like the person is tainted somehow.

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RE: ON C/S A REAL SHORTAGE OF - 10/12/2016 12:12:26 PM   
freedomdwarf1


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Status: offline 		But I don't have ANY pics that show our other partners.... anywhere.

And you'll find many on here and other places don't splash their playmates for all to see.

Nothing to do with being ashamed either.
It's called having a little self respect and decorum.


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RE: ON C/S A REAL SHORTAGE OF - 10/12/2016 12:13:22 PM   
Greatlilbabygirl


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But I don't have ANY pics that show our other partners.... anywhere.

And you'll find many on here and other places don't splash their playmates for all to see.

Nothing to do with being ashamed either.
It's called having a little self respect and decorum.



So pics of me with an ex boyfriend on Facebook is not showing respect?

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RE: ON C/S A REAL SHORTAGE OF - 10/12/2016 12:14:17 PM   
freedomdwarf1


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Status: offline 		In their eyes - it is.

Everyone has their preferences.
Those that don't give a shit who they go with call it discrimination.
Others just call it a personal preference.


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RE: ON C/S A REAL SHORTAGE OF - 10/12/2016 12:15:50 PM   
Greatlilbabygirl


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In their eyes - it is.

Everyone has their preferences.
Those that don't give a shit who they go with call it discrimination.
Others just call it a personal preference.



But who someone has been with in the past shouldn't factor into your preferences (unless it was morally reprehensible i.e. children, animals, etc)
You're not dating or having sex with their exes, so why does it matter?

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RE: ON C/S A REAL SHORTAGE OF - 10/12/2016 12:15:55 PM   
freedomdwarf1


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Status: offline 		You really don't have a clue on human nature do you.
You really are so very naive.

If you haven't managed to work it out at your age, I don't hold much hope.


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