TreSwank
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ORIGINAL: TreSwank I've got all of the sympathy in the world for woman who REALLY WERE the victims of sexual abuse....................but once I hear it from SO MANY girls in a row, you seriously start to doubt the validity of something like that. If there were as many girls getting molested by their dad's as women claim, there would be a serious national crisis going on right now. Actually there is a crisis going on, and they were probably telling the truth. One in three women will be the victim of sexual violence/abuse. One in 4 before the age of 18, most of these by a close family member or friend, and that is usually their own father. I know it is hard to believe and creepy, but it is true. I am blessed I was never abused like this, although over 50 percent of my friends have been. Perhaps there is something about you that attracts these sorts. It is "hard to believe and creepy". I think that alot of women are just craving some sort of gratuitous attention, and, if they're makin' "ten-minute into the conversation" revelations like that to Yours Truly, they are barking up the wrong tree. Don't get me wrong, I'm a sympathetic guy...........but I'm not afraid to throw out the bullshit flag on a woman, even if I want to get dirty with her. Wanting to get laid is no excuse for feigning sympathy. I do remember reading, in an issue of Psychology Today, that 85% of fathers had fessed up in a survey to having brief sexual thoughts about their teenage daughters, but I have more faith in America's dads than to think that there is a full-force, nationwide epidemic of fathers fucking their daughters. Alot of gals are probably using the "my dad molested me" ploy as a rationalization for their own promiscuity. Let's do the world a favor, Ladies, and do away with the "My life is screwed up because I was emotionally traumatized" subterfuge.
< Message edited by TreSwank -- 8/11/2006 3:22:43 PM >
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