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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 8:50:07 PM   
Homestead


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If your sex life is boring and/or you have not met anyone who stimulates your mind, you have made the wrong choices. The perfect relationship is one where the sex is mind blowing and the person is your best friend.

It can and does happen. Either a mind connection without lust or lust without the cerebral component alone will probably not last, but there are exceptions.

Oh, and relationships based on animal lust can actually go on for years and years...believe me.


That would be your perspective. Are you me?

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 8:50:15 PM   
mnottertail


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So, everybody can bullshit, and I can have a hardon for several hours, that ain't an every day thing and as I get older it is prolly a miracle--

Women, assuredly can have  anybody in the world stick their little georgia boy in there for any number of hours..........

So you got 5 minutes out of a 24 hour day of actual  insie outie...

What to do with the  rest of life......it must be in the mind, ja?



LOL,
Ron


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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 8:51:40 PM   
Homestead


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I mean this is where the rubber hits the road, ain't it pal (homestead, good post)
So, everybody can bullshit, and I can have a hardon for several hours, that ain't an every day thing and as I get older it is prolly a miracle--

Women, assuredly can have  anybody in the world stick their little georgia boy in there for any number of hours..........

So you got 5 minutes out of a 24 hour day of actual  insie outie...

What to do with the  rest of life......it must be in the mind, ja?



LOL,
Ron



Yes. Even a nymphomaniac fucks less than one percent of the time on any average day.

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 8:54:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Homestead

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ORIGINAL: SexyRed

If your sex life is boring and/or you have not met anyone who stimulates your mind, you have made the wrong choices. The perfect relationship is one where the sex is mind blowing and the person is your best friend.

It can and does happen. Either a mind connection without lust or lust without the cerebral component alone will probably not last, but there are exceptions.

Oh, and relationships based on animal lust can actually go on for years and years...believe me.


That would be your perspective. Are you me?


I was not just addressing YOU. I am amused that many are arguing over the importance of sex vs. the mind connection. I find it silly. Some people do not value the sexual part as highly as the mind and others do. Why even argue about it?

And of course it is my perspective. That is why we post here, for each of us to post our own perspectives, duh.

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 8:56:38 PM   
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If its all about sex, then you deserve to be tossed off to the side when the sex gets boring. If you cant build smething more and you kow thats all your kept around for. For me at least, I choose to have sex, but it is far from ALL that is involved in the relationship.  It just happens to be one of the enjoyable parts. There are more intimate things that can be done, yes. But, in my eyes, as long as I have a boy here, always ready for whatever I want, why not take ful advantage of the oppertunityand have the sex as well as the service.
My opinion, of course


I don't dissagree with you, I just believe there is far more to a D/s relationship than sexual intercourse. Nor do I believe sex should be a reward for service. The ability and opportunity to serve should be the reward withing itself. Then again I'm a Cuckoldress so the one of the major aspects of it is the denial of access and sex.

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 9:00:19 PM   
Homestead


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ORIGINAL: Homestead

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ORIGINAL: SexyRed

If your sex life is boring and/or you have not met anyone who stimulates your mind, you have made the wrong choices. The perfect relationship is one where the sex is mind blowing and the person is your best friend.

It can and does happen. Either a mind connection without lust or lust without the cerebral component alone will probably not last, but there are exceptions.

Oh, and relationships based on animal lust can actually go on for years and years...believe me.


That would be your perspective. Are you me?


I was not just addressing YOU. I am amused that many are arguing over the importance of sex vs. the mind connection. I find it silly. Some people do not value the sexual part as highly as the mind and others do. Why even argue about it?

And of course it is my perspective. That is why we post here, for each of us to post our own perspectives, duh.


Sighs,another for the ignore list.

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 9:00:22 PM   
SDFemDom4cuck


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If it's all about sex, what's left when sex becomes boring?

NEXT!


It isn't all about sex...which was My entire point. Or perhaps I'm not quite getting what you're saying here.


Never fear, my sacrasm is shining through once more.

I get it MUCH more than you may realize. Now if a few OTHERS here could...........



Ahhh Sarcasm. I was beginning to think I hadn't somehow come across correctly. I'm having a bit of a blonde day.


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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 9:01:47 PM   
Homestead


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If it's all about sex, what's left when sex becomes boring?

NEXT!

It isn't all about sex...which was My entire point. Or perhaps I'm not quite getting what you're saying here.
never fear, my sacrasm is shining through once more.

I get it MUCH more than you may realize. Now if a few OTHERS here could...........



Ahhh Sarcasm. I was beginning to think I hadn't somehow come across correctly. I'm having a bit of a blonde day.

 

Not a problem.  Thank you for being polite,it always scores big points with me when I don't feel like I'm back in high school.



< Message edited by Homestead -- 8/30/2006 9:05:21 PM >

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 9:01:55 PM   
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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 9:13:32 PM   
SDFemDom4cuck


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Not a problem.  Thank you for being polite,it always scores big points with me when I don't feel like I'm back in high school.


You're quite welcome. No reason not to be polite. Dominant doesn't mean one has the right to be impolite. I always find a whisper far more lethal than a scream.

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 9:15:07 PM   
Homestead


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Not a problem.  Thank you for being polite,it always scores big points with me when I don't feel like I'm back in high school.


You're quite welcome. No reason not to be polite. Dominant doesn't mean one has the right to be impolite. I always find a whisper far more lethal than a scream.


Quite. And people actually pay attention better when one is not busy annoying them.

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 9:15:39 PM   
SexyRed


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ORIGINAL: Homestead

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ORIGINAL: SexyRed

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ORIGINAL: Homestead

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ORIGINAL: SexyRed

If your sex life is boring and/or you have not met anyone who stimulates your mind, you have made the wrong choices. The perfect relationship is one where the sex is mind blowing and the person is your best friend.

It can and does happen. Either a mind connection without lust or lust without the cerebral component alone will probably not last, but there are exceptions.

Oh, and relationships based on animal lust can actually go on for years and years...believe me.


That would be your perspective. Are you me?


I was not just addressing YOU. I am amused that many are arguing over the importance of sex vs. the mind connection. I find it silly. Some people do not value the sexual part as highly as the mind and others do. Why even argue about it?

And of course it is my perspective. That is why we post here, for each of us to post our own perspectives, duh.


Sighs,another for the ignore list.


babe, you are so boring to me I don't even bother with the ignore list, I just roll my eyes from your posts.

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 10:21:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aimtoplease101

One common distinction between male dominated v. female dominated relationships seems to be the dominant's attitude towards having intercourse with the sub. Specifically, many female dommes seem to restrict, or even completely deny, intercourse with their male subs, and some will restrict the sub's orgasms of any sort. Conversely, most male doms appear to feature intercourse with their female subs prominently in their D/s relationship, and often enjoy bringing the sub to orgasm.

Any thoughts about this? Is it simply true that, generally speaking, men crave intercourse more than most women? Is there something inherently male domination oriented about penetrative intercourse? Other theories?

Regards, ATP


I could be wrong, but I kinda think that women in general are not quite as sexually-driven as most men.  Im not stating an extreme or an absolute.  Im just saying in general more men are focused on sex more often than most females.  I think this would apply whether the fem is domme or submissive.

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/31/2006 12:04:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Homestead

If I like someone's MIND, it is a thing that never fades.
...
There has to be the possiblity of a transcendent and healthy symbiosis for it to be worthwhile... Or I just won't go there.


Geez you are starting to sound a lot like HAL 2000!

"Have a glorious day Dave..."

-or-

"Vger... it's Daddy... I'm the creator!"

-or- 

"You will be assimilated... welcome to the Borg"

-or-

"Would you like to play a game? How about global geothermal nuclear war?"

----

Artificial intelligence (AI) and unlimited memory (infinite buffer) may be the next best thing to frail chemical dominated human minds bombarded daily by AM/FM, HF, VHF, UHF, Radar, Microwave and Cellular transmissions, further scrambled by EMF and magnetic fields of power distribution grids.... Once the lust has been chronologically devoured, once the mind has been nuked by propagation... there jsut HAS to be more... there's always MORE!

No sexual intercourse... only Vulcan mindfuck virtual intercourse...  resurrecting Barbarella and getting smoke pumping from those fingertips.... watching that hair curl up tight as you experience your new wave orgasm.

ummm.... Seriously I think I still prefer hot sweaty lustful body bumping Sex Sex Sex.... and of course always MORE SEX!

Why?  ... because I can, and because I want to.

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/31/2006 12:16:18 AM   
Amaros


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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/31/2006 1:06:09 AM   
mons


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yes it is true that many of the dommes do not sleep with the male slave or submissive but it not because we want to many find it  .  somewhat of a change or punishment they enjoy it. but i think if i find the right male slave it would be sweet to have such a pleasureable thing to happen once and a great while. . - . .
 
mons . .

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/31/2006 4:42:50 AM   
Homestead


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ORIGINAL: Homestead

If I like someone's MIND, it is a thing that never fades.
...
There has to be the possiblity of a transcendent and healthy symbiosis for it to be worthwhile... Or I just won't go there.


Geez you are starting to sound a lot like HAL 2000!

"Have a glorious day Dave..."

-or-

"Vger... it's Daddy... I'm the creator!"

-or- 

"You will be assimilated... welcome to the Borg"

-or-

"Would you like to play a game? How about global geothermal nuclear war?"

----

Artificial intelligence (AI) and unlimited memory (infinite buffer) may be the next best thing to frail chemical dominated human minds bombarded daily by AM/FM, HF, VHF, UHF, Radar, Microwave and Cellular transmissions, further scrambled by EMF and magnetic fields of power distribution grids.... Once the lust has been chronologically devoured, once the mind has been nuked by propagation... there jsut HAS to be more... there's always MORE!

No sexual intercourse... only Vulcan mindfuck virtual intercourse...  resurrecting Barbarella and getting smoke pumping from those fingertips.... watching that hair curl up tight as you experience your new wave orgasm.

ummm.... Seriously I think I still prefer hot sweaty lustful body bumping Sex Sex Sex.... and of course always MORE SEX!

Why?  ... because I can, and because I want to.


It's really amusing to see the knee jerk reactions of certain men after simply placing sex on a lower priority than life in general. You may want to note that I never said I didn't do sex. Merely that I was not foolish enough to use it as a foundational aspect of a reason to BE with a woman.

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/31/2006 4:54:21 AM   
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D/s or M/s is about more than the sex, this is very true. It is about the love, the submitting of ones entire being in joyful surrender to another.
 
That being said for many (myself included) the sex is important; see my above statement" it is about submitting one's entire being to another".
 
There can be D/s without sex this is true, and there can be sex in a D/s relationship. However if it is only about sex then it is not about D/s which requires so much more than physical interaction.
 
If one of my pair became unable to have sex the M/s would still be there, if the M/s was not there the sex would mean nothing to me.
 
Scooter and i have a lot of sex, Jewel and i very little yet i am collared to both.
 
If sex was all it was about i would be a very unhappy girl. If there were no sex i would also be unhappy. Yet as i commented above sex outside of the M/s dynamic does nothing for me, i would rather be and was for years celibate.
 
It means a lot to me to hear "good job" or to cuddle at their feet and watch movies or the fact that we can have intelligent conversation.
 
As a few said earlier in this thread the best of both worlds is what i love, sex within the M/s dynamic with people i love. 
 
 

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/31/2006 6:02:59 AM   
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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/31/2006 6:22:52 AM   
Homestead


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Homestead, all the A-Sexual women will love you then!



Have you paid any atention to what I am saying at all popeye?

Or are you so totally stuck on the idea that I dislike sex, that it's all you can see now? Maybe you and nasty daddy should form an "I'm the studliest stud" mutual admiration society?

Then you can both rate who fucks enough to join.<LOL>

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