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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 2:36:38 PM   
cynthiamarie


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That's funny...I've been told I'm not a "Twue Domme" for not having sex with every sub I play with.   I have to be in a LTR to be having sex with someone and that seems to make me one of the freaks in the BDSM world.

Amen

Btw, I was just asked earlier today by a Dom friend...have I finally started fucking my bottoms/subs.   

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 2:39:13 PM   
michaelGA2


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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 3:35:43 PM   
popeye1250


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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 4:30:30 PM   
RavenMuse


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ORIGINAL: amaidiamond
Lol thank you Popeye, sometimes i think theres only fluff between my ears


You are not getting away with that dear. You are a bright girl wether you want to see that or not


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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 5:14:06 PM   
CreativeDominant


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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

Just as I disagree with those who think that "busting balls and putting a man in his place" or "revenge against the male gender" is behind all female dominants


Well thank God you said this because your post was "loosing me" :)

I'm just going to speak for myself  here and confirm what you said.  I, in no way, enjoy dominace over a man to "bust his balls" or because I'm doing it to vindicate all the wrongs real or imagined levied on the female gender over the eons.  I do it simply becuae I'm good at it.  It's an ego thing.  Sort of a "hey.. let me show you what I can do..this'll blow your mind" mindset.

I understand men and what drives them. I take whatever that is and play with it be  it their ego, their mind, or their body.  I prefer to share my female approach to things.  Now if I have to tie them down so they hold still long enough for me to get my point actross.  welllll.. ya do what you must.   I'm one that does not do humilation..nor dress them up as a female for kicks.  I like my male masculine and I keep him that way.  I know Slave well enough to know what he likes.. and  I figure out MY way to get it to him.  Toying with the male energy is fun for us both. There are practices out there that I simply do and that is agreed on at the very begining.  I do not take things into sadistic over-ride.  It's enough for him to know I COULD.

Nobody should practice domination because of a hate or a get even attitude with the other sex.

Not every female dominant is a feminatzi.


Of course not...I would imagine that you would probably find no more of them than you would find of  the "sex-crazed Lothario" among male dominants.

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 6:09:12 PM   
littlesarbonn


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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

D/s, when done correctly, supersedes sex.



I'm somewhat of a rarity in this because I truly believe that. I sometimes feel there's something wrong with me because I don't even pursue the sexual act with any woman I'm with. I get great pleasure out of great conversations, teasing and all sorts of fun things that don't involve sexual penetration. That's why I love D/s to the point where the sex being up to her is more than acceptable to me; it's actually what I desire. If a woman desires sex with me and we're in a sensual dynamic, I'm overjoyed, but mainly because a woman desires to be sensual with me. If it doesn't amount to sex, I've never really had a problem with that. But sometimes it does cause me to think to myself that maybe there's something wrong with the relationship if it didn't involve any type of sex, and that's just because everything around me is designed to make me believe that. We're a society that lives and breathes sex all around us, and it can sometimes be quite overwhelming.

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 6:36:42 PM   
Sunshine119


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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

You can also use orgasms as "punishment".



Oh heck.....you've got to be kidding.  Punishment?  I can't imagine that.  Would LOVE to be forced to have dozens a day.  What can I say?  He created a slut!


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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 6:45:33 PM   
LotusSong


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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

You can also use orgasms as "punishment".



"Oh PULEEZE don't throw me in that briar patch!" :)  Damn.. don't cha just HATE that when that happens??

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 6:50:36 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Littlesarbon, and that's ok too if that's what you're looking for.
Homestead and Amayos I think would agree with you there.
As for us "hyper-sexuals" as Homestead calls us, it just wouldn't work out for us as we also enjoy a lot of sex in a B&D M/s relationship.
There's really no "right way" to do it.
Whatever works for "you."

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 7:24:02 PM   
SDFemDom4cuck


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I'm somewhat of a rarity in this because I truly believe that. I sometimes feel there's something wrong with me because I don't even pursue the sexual act with any woman I'm with. I get great pleasure out of great conversations, teasing and all sorts of fun things that don't involve sexual penetration. That's why I love D/s to the point where the sex being up to her is more than acceptable to me; it's actually what I desire. If a woman desires sex with me and we're in a sensual dynamic, I'm overjoyed, but mainly because a woman desires to be sensual with me. If it doesn't amount to sex, I've never really had a problem with that. But sometimes it does cause me to think to myself that maybe there's something wrong with the relationship if it didn't involve any type of sex, and that's just because everything around me is designed to make me believe that. We're a society that lives and breathes sex all around us, and it can sometimes be quite overwhelming


ls

Its such a shame more subs don't have the same mind set. I've always believed there are far more intimate things that can be done within a D/s relationship without penetration ever occuring. From now on I'll have to send them to you so you can explain it to them!

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 8:03:26 PM   
Homestead


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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck

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I'm somewhat of a rarity in this because I truly believe that. I sometimes feel there's something wrong with me because I don't even pursue the sexual act with any woman I'm with. I get great pleasure out of great conversations, teasing and all sorts of fun things that don't involve sexual penetration. That's why I love D/s to the point where the sex being up to her is more than acceptable to me; it's actually what I desire. If a woman desires sex with me and we're in a sensual dynamic, I'm overjoyed, but mainly because a woman desires to be sensual with me. If it doesn't amount to sex, I've never really had a problem with that. But sometimes it does cause me to think to myself that maybe there's something wrong with the relationship if it didn't involve any type of sex, and that's just because everything around me is designed to make me believe that. We're a society that lives and breathes sex all around us, and it can sometimes be quite overwhelming


ls

Its such a shame more subs don't have the same mind set. I've always believed there are far more intimate things that can be done within a D/s relationship without penetration ever occuring. From now on I'll have to send them to you so you can explain it to them!


If it's all about sex, what's left when sex becomes boring?

NEXT!

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 8:06:08 PM   
michaelGA2


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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 8:09:54 PM   
popeye1250


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ORIGINAL: Homestead

quote:

ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck

quote:

I'm somewhat of a rarity in this because I truly believe that. I sometimes feel there's something wrong with me because I don't even pursue the sexual act with any woman I'm with. I get great pleasure out of great conversations, teasing and all sorts of fun things that don't involve sexual penetration. That's why I love D/s to the point where the sex being up to her is more than acceptable to me; it's actually what I desire. If a woman desires sex with me and we're in a sensual dynamic, I'm overjoyed, but mainly because a woman desires to be sensual with me. If it doesn't amount to sex, I've never really had a problem with that. But sometimes it does cause me to think to myself that maybe there's something wrong with the relationship if it didn't involve any type of sex, and that's just because everything around me is designed to make me believe that. We're a society that lives and breathes sex all around us, and it can sometimes be quite overwhelming


ls

Its such a shame more subs don't have the same mind set. I've always believed there are far more intimate things that can be done within a D/s relationship without penetration ever occuring. From now on I'll have to send them to you so you can explain it to them!


If it's all about sex, what's left when sex becomes boring?

NEXT!


Homestead, what kind of sex have you been having?

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 8:29:59 PM   
Homestead


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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

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ORIGINAL: Homestead

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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck

quote:

I'm somewhat of a rarity in this because I truly believe that. I sometimes feel there's something wrong with me because I don't even pursue the sexual act with any woman I'm with. I get great pleasure out of great conversations, teasing and all sorts of fun things that don't involve sexual penetration. That's why I love D/s to the point where the sex being up to her is more than acceptable to me; it's actually what I desire. If a woman desires sex with me and we're in a sensual dynamic, I'm overjoyed, but mainly because a woman desires to be sensual with me. If it doesn't amount to sex, I've never really had a problem with that. But sometimes it does cause me to think to myself that maybe there's something wrong with the relationship if it didn't involve any type of sex, and that's just because everything around me is designed to make me believe that. We're a society that lives and breathes sex all around us, and it can sometimes be quite overwhelming


ls

Its such a shame more subs don't have the same mind set. I've always believed there are far more intimate things that can be done within a D/s relationship without penetration ever occuring. From now on I'll have to send them to you so you can explain it to them!


If it's all about sex, what's left when sex becomes boring?

NEXT!


Homestead, what kind of sex have you been having?


Laughswhen you have as creative and active a mind as mine,pretty much any animal act gets boring in a hurry.

Still not getting the MENTAL stimulation part popeye?

The mind IS the most powerful sex organ.

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 8:31:19 PM   
SDFemDom4cuck


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If it's all about sex, what's left when sex becomes boring?

NEXT!


It isn't all about sex...which was My entire point. Or perhaps I'm not quite getting what you're saying here.

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 8:33:22 PM   
Homestead


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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck

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If it's all about sex, what's left when sex becomes boring?

NEXT!


It isn't all about sex...which was My entire point. Or perhaps I'm not quite getting what you're saying here.


Never fear, my sacrasm is shining through once more.

I get it MUCH more than you may realize. Now if a few OTHERS here could...........

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 8:37:01 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		If its all about sex, then you deserve to be tossed off to the side when the sex gets boring. If you cant build smething more and you kow thats all your kept around for. For me at least, I choose to have sex, but it is far from ALL that is involved in the relationship.  It just happens to be one of the enjoyable parts. There are more intimate things that can be done, yes. But, in my eyes, as long as I have a boy here, always ready for whatever I want, why not take ful advantage of the oppertunityand have the sex as well as the service.
My opinion, of course
DV

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 8:41:20 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		I guess I don't get this at all, say you wash the car and I come home and I say good girl!!!!!!!!!!

Sometime later in life, you say honey; guess what?  I won the nobel prize for the grand unification theory of the field forces.......but I haven't worked out the special cases........

Why wouldn't I say good girl?  Maybe I don't get it...

(I would also say, can I borrow a 20?)  

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 8:44:24 PM   
Homestead


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Status: offline 		If I like someone's MIND, it is a thing that never fades.

Sex gets passe, new relationships lose the chemical charms. What then? But if one has engaged my core being, now that has the possiblity of lasting long beyond the time nature sets for mere lust.

The sad fact is, that the vast majority of kink relationships seldom last beyond six months to a year. I've been there, done that, and know the process. I am no longer willing to invest myself into hurtful and ephemeral relationships, based on sex alone.

There has to be the possiblity of a transcendent and healthy symbiosis for it to be worthwhile. Or I just won't go there.

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RE: Intercourse with subs - 8/30/2006 8:48:54 PM   
SexyRed


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Status: offline 		If your sex life is boring and/or you have not met anyone who stimulates your mind, you have made the wrong choices. The perfect relationship is one where the sex is mind blowing and the person is your best friend.

It can and does happen. Either a mind connection without lust or lust without the cerebral component alone will probably not last, but there are exceptions.

Oh, and relationships based on animal lust can actually go on for years and years...believe me.

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