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RE: Questions and advice - 6/11/2012 12:00:43 PM   
Delilya


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Status: offline 		I had questions about there not being a lock on her bedroom door and her parents coming in any time they wanted. That seemed strange to me. My grown children have lived with me from time to time but they had at least that much privacy.

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RE: Questions and advice - 6/11/2012 12:03:29 PM   
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He is right in the fact that this type of thing does happen in the work place on a regular basis.


I haven't had sex at work in 20 years, nor am I aware of any of my coworkers doing so and I've held a wide variety of positions.

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RE: Questions and advice - 6/11/2012 12:12:39 PM   
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quote:

He is right in the fact that this type of thing does happen in the work place on a regular basis.


I haven't had sex at work in 20 years, nor am I aware of any of my coworkers doing so and I've held a wide variety of positions.

tee hee, you're missing out on all da fun! i tried a new position last night with an admin, in the supply closet. that's why the copy paper is moist ;)

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RE: Questions and advice - 6/11/2012 12:14:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		All I can think of is Tap Tap Tap. You guys keep buying into these soap operas, it's hillarious.

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RE: Questions and advice - 6/11/2012 12:16:04 PM   
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Also: If helped her get the job, wouldn't it reflect badly on him if she was found to be having sex at the workplace?


Yes it should... however he's probably Doming her ass without people being aware him and her are close at all. Totally unknown to her Co-Workers and such. If they were 24/7 you betcha your sweet ass it would REFLECT Directly upon him in a heartbeat.

There is something crazy to the story.

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RE: Questions and advice - 6/11/2012 12:19:31 PM   
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All I can think of is Tap Tap Tap. You guys keep buying into these soap operas, it's hillarious.


I was suspicious with my first post on this thread, which referred to the thread which could have spawned a sock.

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RE: Questions and advice - 6/11/2012 12:22:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am going to go on a good hunch that you are the "Dom" in question.

No, this does not happen everyday in the workplace. I've been in the workplace for over 20 years and never, not once, has this happened in any place I've worked and I've worked in quite a lot of them all over the U.S.

Imo anyone who requires this does not have her best at heart but is only thinking of his own dick. Sorry but I like my relationship where he doesn't want to get me fired and lose all my friends and family. He likes me to grow, not be destroyed.

If you want to destroy her and she wants to be destroyed...whatever, I'm glad I'm not her or him. But it doesn't sound like she wants to be destroyed.

If you're the "Dom" you're messed up and may want to seek some therapy or grow up.


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RE: Questions and advice - 6/11/2012 12:26:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Endivius

All I can think of is Tap Tap Tap. You guys keep buying into these soap operas, it's hillarious.


Hey, don't discourage them it makes for lulzy reading for me, and watching the OP's of these wackfests rearrange their stories is priceless!! I mean, dang, we are responsible for this person NEVER EVER NEVER HAVING KIDS.

I say our work is done, don't you?

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RE: Questions and advice - 6/11/2012 12:27:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: Endivius

All I can think of is Tap Tap Tap. You guys keep buying into these soap operas, it's hillarious.


Hey, don't discourage them it makes for lulzy reading for me, and watching the OP's of these wackfests rearrange their stories is priceless!! I mean, dang, we are responsible for this person NEVER EVER NEVER HAVING KIDS.

I say our work is done, don't you?

ah fuck that made me snort!!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: Questions and advice - 6/11/2012 12:27:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		And I have never had sex in the workplace, and even now, with my very own office, it ain't likely. Well, Probably not. It depends.

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RE: Questions and advice - 6/11/2012 12:28:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		As for you Stephanie, from what others have told you, you ARE getting the advise you asked, you just don't want to accept it. You want someone to tell you it's ok and that you have a good man there and you should stay with a fucked up man because he'll destroy your life and like that so hey, go for it!

Sorry but I'm not going to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to tell you what you should do and what I would do if I was in your situation.

Take it or leave it. Apparently you're going to leave it. <shrug>

ETA: hhmmm...he called off the wedding just like that because his dick wasn't getting hard. That right there should tell you about the man. No talking to you and wanting to work it out, no saying he was sorry, no saying he would pay your expenses, etc....just a man who didn't get his way so he took his ball and went home. AAAWWW....why the HELLL would you want a relationship with someone like that??? I'm hoping the 72 isn't your birth year because if you're 40 years old and don't see the problems, all I can say is to continue living at home with your parents because you really haven't the sense yet to live on your own.


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RE: Questions and advice - 6/11/2012 12:36:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Endivius

All I can think of is Tap Tap Tap. You guys keep buying into these soap operas, it's hillarious.

half the time i think that too. then i slap myself back into my bubble, and pretend that i might actually be helping someone fer real. and at the very least, have good discussion about it.

but lo fucking l, you're spot on. hit and run one post OPs can span many pages - we're easy to rile up ;)

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RE: Questions and advice - 6/11/2012 12:38:23 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		Ok, I really should read the entire thread before I post. UGH.

Nevermind...I'm calling fake. Sigh. <shakes head about idiots>

Forget everything I said. It was a waste of time. lol


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RE: Questions and advice - 6/11/2012 12:39:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		thank you for that. i refused to read the thread, and trust your call.


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RE: Questions and advice - 6/11/2012 12:45:01 PM   
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I was in the this is bs camp with bita way back on the first couple of pages of....BUT....I have never had a reason to actually give someone a wiki link before so I'm going to do that now.

For the OP I think this link will be of great use to you as I have seen 12 years in chat rooms tell better stories.

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RE: Questions and advice - 6/11/2012 12:46:20 PM   
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Ok, I really should read the entire thread before I post. UGH.

Nevermind...I'm calling fake. Sigh. <shakes head about idiots>

Forget everything I said. It was a waste of time. lol



You actually read the thread? Dang. I only read one post before my FR. Were there good lulz?

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RE: Questions and advice - 6/11/2012 12:49:24 PM   
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All I can think of is Tap Tap Tap. You guys keep buying into these soap operas, it's hillarious.



Nah, it's an amusing way to pass some time.

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RE: Questions and advice - 6/11/2012 12:52:50 PM   
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Ok, I really should read the entire thread before I post. UGH.

Nevermind...I'm calling fake. Sigh. <shakes head about idiots>

Forget everything I said. It was a waste of time. lol



You actually read the thread? Dang. I only read one post before my FR. Were there good lulz?



Haha...actually I was ok until I read the post about her having brain surgery and he got her the job that she's been at for 16 years but with him for 6 years. Just doesn't add up. That's when I stopped reading.

One of these days I'm gonna stop being impulsive and read the entire thread first. I promise!

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RE: Questions and advice - 6/11/2012 12:56:32 PM   
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RE: Questions and advice - 6/11/2012 12:57:54 PM   
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ETA: hhmmm...he called off the wedding just like that because his dick wasn't getting hard. That right there should tell you about the man. No talking to you and wanting to work it out, no saying he was sorry, no saying he would pay your expenses, etc....just a man who didn't get his way so he took his ball and went home. AAAWWW....why the HELLL would you want a relationship with someone like that??? I'm hoping the 72 isn't your birth year because if you're 40 years old and don't see the problems, all I can say is to continue living at home with your parents because you really haven't the sense yet to live on your own.


So, no responsibility for her telling him (paraphrased), "if you call off the D/s, you might as well call off the whole relationship"? No responsibility for her giving her word then backing out which reads to me like she is the one who called off the D/s? No credit for paying for her copay for her .. brain surgery? No credit for relocating based on her word that she would obey and that they wanted the same thing? No credit for sticking by for six years of her bullshit, through an illness I wouldn't wish on anyone and in agreeing to obey every command whether she liked it or not?

None? He's just an asshole or something who is thinking with his dick even though he offered to go nilla with her and just leave the D/s out all together?

Tough crowd.

That said, schools out for the summer.

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