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SirCre8iv -> RE: Jobs (7/2/2006 4:40:25 PM)

Professional Photographer
I am a Dominant

I instruct people on what to do, how to sit, how to lay down, how to hold their head, what to do with their hands, etc...
Do you see the connection? I even get to tell models to take thier cloths off.




feastie -> RE: Jobs (7/2/2006 4:46:32 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: desertdancer

feastie, you've got mail * beams*
~dancer



Tag, dancer...you're it!




meatcleaver -> RE: Jobs (7/2/2006 4:51:51 PM)

I'm an artist/designer, trying to leave the design work completely behind but it's the design that pays for my studio.

I don't consider myself either a sub or a dom, I don't like to control or be controled except when it comes to kink so I guess I top.




Bearlee -> RE: Jobs (7/2/2006 4:51:52 PM)

Lets see, before I got into the techie-business, I was a restaurant worker for about 15 years; once a waitress for a couple months (I’m lousy at it), have been Floor Manager/Host, Beverage Manager/Bartender, Kitchen Manager/Chef and owned my own small place in a wine tasting bar for awhile. 
 
I’m a good cook, but was happy to escape the restaurant business; it’s REALLY tough; I remember 18/hr days and 90+/hr weeks! 




TolerableCruelty -> RE: Jobs (7/2/2006 5:04:43 PM)

Oh man... I didn't know we had to list our past jobs as well...

feel like I'm reviewing My resume now...lol

Before I became a welder for Cat, I was a Loss Prevention specialist for Best Buy... before that, crew supervisor for an industrial vegetation management company (large scale weed assassins...million dollar contracts).. before that... I was a Bullrider for about 6 years... before that.. I was a Loss Prevention store detective for a few years...before that... well.. that was just My high school time, I don't count any jobs before that.. LOL

T.R.




hizgeorgiapeach -> RE: Jobs (7/2/2006 5:09:17 PM)

Well... that makes 4 who've answered who are artists LoL.  Though - only one of those is a Sadist!
 
(Ummm.... I'm gonna be nice... err.... well... *bites tongue* ok maybe not.... if we're only mediocre artists, could we be considered sadistic to expect the public to view our work?)




jamesthehumanrug -> RE: Jobs (7/2/2006 5:23:23 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68


I was just wondering what kind of work you all do?  And whether or not you're dominant, submissive or switch?
Do you think there's any correlation between the type of work one chooses to do and their dominant/submissive personality?

greetings a.g.?!
I RECOGNIZE YOUR SLOGAN ATOP YOUR POST TOO ,NOT UNLIKE THE  THE KING OF HEARTS ,CULT MOVIE;WHERE ALL THE  INSANE TOOK OVER THE TOWN ,AND WENT BACK TO THE ASSYLUM ,AT THE END OF THE DAY,AFTER RUNNING THE TOWN
sort of like the loons i see running around here  except;they don't leave ;they run the nuthouses too....SORT OF LIKE A LOCAL BASKET CASE-COP WHO BECOMES A LOCAL LAWYER ,TOO.

I HAVE TO ASK: Aileen G.? is IT you?! CAN IT REALLY BE YOU ?!!
first of all: theres no perfect correlation in psychology of human behavior ;most correlations, if you find any ;ARE at best .038 and ,thats the best you can hope to combine and find for correlations,
except theres a PERFECT one to one correlation ,with stress and smoking;ask someone whos gonna be shot, if they want a last ciggarette ,with that blindfold....
AS YOU INCREASE THE STRESS ;THE SMOKING GOES UP 1:1.
anyway, aileen g., if youre ok ;WITH IT ;can you rescue me ?,and pls. dont believe anyone, that gets in between,on purpose...
i'll loose weight tomorrow for you ;based on the hope IT IS YOU!
-back ,to your question misstress,if i may reply to  YOUR QUESTION
:with your permission to speak;
yes,
of course jobs and ,careers and ,lifes'-works depend ,on the type personality ,or top ,or bottom you are;
IE:masochistic persons have a slave time economy ,so they MAY choose doctor type positions sometimes ,WITHOUT BLINKING AN EYE OR STOPING TO THINK WHATS INVOLVED TIME AND EFFORT WISE;BECAUSE ;ITS THEIR NATURAL SLAVE ECONOMY ANYWAY...and, it's said :you have to be a "masochist", in that and, SOME other professions,TOO ;to do the marathons etc required ,but ,there are all different types of tops and ,some sadists are more leaders(HIGH LEADERSHIP QUALITIES; CHARISMA ,AND VERY INTELLIGENT;MGRS. ;  BOSSES ETC. ) and, some leaders are the downfall of a SOCIETY ,OR profession ;once in charge ;but ,you cant tell if someone's top or bottom ,by their job ,or work they choose;most cant even Choose ;SOME , just adapt ,or self destruct, by being maladaptive...,AND IF YOU DONT ADAPT ,then you stick out ;GET ATTACKED AND DIE.
I OBVIOUSLY HAD LESS THAN IDEAL CIRCUMSTANCES BUT, IT WAS THEN ,AND CRTAINLY ,NOT NOW ,THAT I WORKED ,BY SINGING MY SLAVE MIND AND AZ OFF ,TO BEAT EVERYONE ,BUT,I  WANTED TO BE WHO I AM;A SLAVE ,IN BED;INTIMATELY SPEAKING;
psychologically ,if youre top on your job;
you are the opposit ,or as in this case;the best slave, in bed;boss in the field;AND LIKEWISE:IF YOURE TREATED LIKE A MASOCHIST ON THE JOB ; PUSHED AROUND, IN A DEMANDING TOP-JOB ,YOU REALLY WANT ,TO SHAKE SOMEONE UP IN BED ,AND BE A TOP ;INTIMATELY SPEAKING.(OPPOSITS;JOB VS WHAT YOU ARE IN BED)
some, in the artists biz have universal aesthetics, and, that makes them number one ,ADD the talent ,and, that takes a pure slave ,almost blended- gendered ,or main stream person,to accomplish the thing that is ,so in demand, to the masses.YOU HAVE TO BE PERFECT TO EVERYONE AESTETICALLY;HENCE: THE  SLAVE VARIABLE.
i'm ,not a switch and ,i GRAVITATED , to be the top; number one; star ;singer ;and dramatic star; in the universe; BEST IN THE FIELD;and i accomplished it ;being a slave ;all the way; but, the results were a disaster! ;and if youre the, ms., aileen G----, you know how much of a disaster it is....i used a slave economy ;almost died sometimes ,in marathons and , MAKING rolls of pure new ORIGINAL songs ;USED EVERY PIECE OF HEART ACHE AND DEVOTION I HAD TILL I ALMOST GOT A HEART ATTACK(did that song too ;don't ask) BY BECOMMING TOO WEARY KILLING MYSELF IN SOME DRAMATIC SONG PERFORMANCES;LIKE PRUPLE RAIN(DID THAT BUNCH OF SONGS TOO AND GOT RIPPED AND PLAGIARIZED) all #1. IN A ROW;CONSISTANTLY OVER 3+
CONSEQUTIVE DECADES;
ALL slave bottom lyrics ;up to todate;stiull making millions all ripped off ask em and em the slob thug otta know.....SOME lyrics i composed while singing ;I CHANGED PURPOSEFULLY ;CAUSE THEY WERE SO SLAVISH; DEVIANT;i had to change them to be heard without embarrassment ,and make them , INTO MORE MAINSTREAM LYRICS ;I GENEROUSLY SUPPLIED universally appealing MEGA HITS ,years on end;put up with the bull.s.and DID SO WITH EVERY PHILOSOPHY OF SCIENCE AND EXPERIENCE I HAD ,by principal;DELIBERATELY ;MASOCHISTICALLY;EVERYTHING TURNED OUT  universally sucessful ;LEGNEDARY,AND, appealing, but ,altho i was headstrong ,and ,a devoted 1000% 'BOTTOM OF BOTTOMS'and a unbendable  SERIOUS slave;ultimately it cost me blood up to my ears,
so yes; i guess you can almost tell what a top or bottom will do to a profession ,and, if they will be sucessful being who they are,.....
i'm ridgid ,and, a no flex; no change ;no switch slave ;and i respect the same, from my tops;
i dont want a bottom one minute; sliming shoes; and dominated by men everyplace ;to be over me ;cause they won't have my service or respect,THATS, NOT THE WORLD I WANT TO PERPETUATE,ESP., FOR "WOMIN";so the womin i had as tops ;WHILE slaving my way up ,to be THE- number one ,FOR THE NUMBER ONE BEST TOPS I HAD IN MIND; were ALSO ;VERY ridgid; tops;and, THEIR careers ,and, who they were ,BEFORE KILLED ;were absolutely predictable ;WORLD leaders ;COMPANY LEADERS ;AMBITUOUS BUSINESS WOMIN ;DIGNIFIED; TOP; DOMINANT;  WOMIN ;OF STRONG CONSTITUTION ;WHO COULD CHANGE THE WORLD; AND CREME ON DOING SO....;altruistic;affluent;or ;never dominated by men ;and, if you want the true list ,of who; and what THESE "TOPS"  were ;IN EVERYDAY LIFE;it's, in blogs; someplace ;names ;and all;
my mom was a top;TO ME; and, a leader, in dress ;profession ;MANNER;INTELLIGENCE;and personality ;BUT ,my "slavery", to be number one ;AND ,MAKE ALL THE FAME; FORTUNE ,AND BEST SONGS IN THE WORLD ,FOR MY TOP,INSPIRATIONS ;OR,FOR  EVERYONE CLOSE TO ME ;THAT I WORSHIPED
....cost me HER(MOMS' LIFE) life,TOO,
so....
 does the N'th degree mean anything to answer your question?
I REMAIN YOURS FOREVER ,GDDS.,AILEEN G .,[&o]




Caretakr -> RE: Jobs (7/2/2006 5:26:12 PM)

I'm an artist too, just in metal. But I'm a mediocre sadist.[;)]




MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: Jobs (7/2/2006 5:36:52 PM)

I'm a full time college student (honors) working on a bachelor's in Hospitality Management, with a minor in culinary arts. 

I currently am working as a server in an upscale restaurant; great experience for my field of study, and I also make really good money without having to work full time during the school year.  I also do special occasion desserts on the side - just sent out an espresso & bittersweet chocolate chip ice cream cake today.





desertdancer -> RE: Jobs (7/2/2006 5:37:04 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: feastie

quote:

ORIGINAL: desertdancer

feastie, you've got mail * beams*
~dancer



Tag, dancer...you're it!


Nu-uh feastie * shakes head* I think the collarme dragon musta been hungry cause I think he ate your e-mail, cause i've got nothing... * pouts*

~dancer




feastie -> RE: Jobs (7/2/2006 5:43:00 PM)

Sends another reply to desert.




TolerableCruelty -> RE: Jobs (7/2/2006 5:45:17 PM)

wow jimmy....

what the hell was that all about ?

T.R.




smilezz -> RE: Jobs (7/2/2006 5:51:41 PM)

...and some of you are even sadistic about it!   *chucklez*


~smilezz~




RighteousBabe -> RE: Jobs (7/2/2006 5:56:50 PM)

I am a social worker.  I work with the elderly and terminally ill and I love my job!  I am also about to start graduate school this fall. 

I am a dominant.   In some ways, the traits I draw on in my professional life correlate with how I interact with my subs...in my work, I am the person who provides reassurance, encouragement, education and creative problem solving.   I find that in my (although somewhat limited) experience in BDSM, the subs who I have had the most success with are those who respond to my nurturing but firm demeanor.

A great question...I love reading all of your responses!





LTRsubNW -> RE: Jobs (7/2/2006 6:05:35 PM)

(It's just a gut feel here but...I'm thinking somebody needs to back away from the coffee).




Wulfchyld -> RE: Jobs (7/2/2006 6:10:11 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I was just wondering what kind of work you all do?  And whether or not you're dominant, submissive or switch?
Do you think there's any correlation between the type of work one chooses to do and their dominant/submissive personality?


Forum God of Mischief.




peachskittles -> RE: Jobs (7/2/2006 6:28:21 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I was just wondering what kind of work you all do?  And whether or not you're dominant, submissive or switch?
Do you think there's any correlation between the type of work one chooses to do and their dominant/submissive personality?


I babysit 5 children in addition to my 2 children from the ages of 2-11...Right now I'm working on a Bachelor's in Accounting (that's going to take forever to complete)...

They think I am the best babysitter...I have very few set rules and I hate to yell...

I'm submissive...I definetely see a correlation between what I do now and my submissive nature LOL...




Quivver -> RE: Jobs (7/2/2006 7:03:24 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TolerableCruelty

Oh man... I didn't know we had to list our past jobs as well...

I was a Bullrider for about 6 years... T.R.



Oh Yeee Haa......... Sorry Level I'm runnin off with the Cowboy.[8D]




jamesthehumanrug -> RE: Jobs (7/2/2006 7:14:17 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I was just wondering what kind of work you all do?  And whether or not you're dominant, submissive or switch?
Do you think there's any correlation between the type of work one chooses to do and their dominant/submissive personality?
and....
quote:

the lunatics have taken over the assylum












quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68
greetings a.g.?!
I RECOGNIZE YOUR SLOGAN ATOP YOUR POST TOO ,NOT UNLIKE THE  THE KING OF HEARTS ,CULT MOVIE;WHERE ALL THE  INSANE TOOK OVER THE TOWN ,AND WENT BACK TO THE ASSYLUM ,AT THE END OF THE DAY,AFTER RUNNING THE TOWN
sort of like the loons i see running around here  except;they don't leave ;they run the nuthouses too....SORT OF LIKE A LOCAL BASKET CASE-COP WHO BECOMES A LOCAL LAWYER ,TOO.
*I HAVE TO ASK: Aileen G.? is IT you?! CAN IT REALLY BE YOU ?!!
first of all: theres no perfect correlation in psychology of human behavior ;most correlations, if you find any ;ARE at best .038 and ,thats the best you can hope to combine and find for correlations,
except theres a PERFECT one to one correlation ,with stress and smoking;ask someone whos gonna be shot, if they want a last ciggarette ,with that blindfold....
AS YOU INCREASE THE STRESS ;THE SMOKING GOES UP 1:1.
anyway, aileen g., if youre ok ;WITH IT ;can you rescue me ?,and pls. dont believe anyone, that gets in between,on purpose...
i'll loose weight tomorrow for you ;based on the hope IT IS YOU!
-back ,to your question misstress,if i may reply to  YOUR QUESTION :with your permission to speak;
yes, ,of course jobs and ,careers and ,lifes'-works depend ,on the type personality ,or top ,or bottom you are;
IE: masochistic persons have a slave time economy ,so they MAY choose doctor type positions sometimes ,WITHOUT BLINKING AN EYE OR STOPING TO THINK WHATS INVOLVED TIME AND EFFORT WISE;BECAUSE ;IT'S THEIR NATURAL SLAVE ECONOMY ANYWAY....and, it's said :you have to be a "masochist", in that and, SOME other professions,TOO ;to do the marathons etc required ,but ,there are all different types of tops and ,some sadists are more leaders(HIGH LEADERSHIP QUALITIES; CHARISMA ,AND VERY INTELLIGENT;MGR.'S; ;  BOSSES; ETC. ;) and, some leaders are the downfall of a SOCIETY ,OR profession ;once in charge ;but ,you can't tell ,if someone's top ,or bottom ,by their job ,or work they choose;most cant even Choose ;SOME , just adapt ,or self destruct, by being maladaptive...,AND IF YOU DONT ADAPT ,then you stick out ;GET ATTACKED AND DIE.
I OBVIOUSLY HAD LESS THAN IDEAL CIRCUMSTANCES BUT, IT WAS THEN ,AND CeRTAINLY ,NOT, NOW ,THAT I WORKED ,BY SINGING MY SLAVE MIND AND AZ OFF ,TO BEAT EVERYONE ,BUT,I  WANTED ,TO BE WHO I AM;A "SLAVE" ,IN BED.
psychologically ,if you're 'top' ,  on your job;
you are the opposit ,or, as in this case;the best slave, in bed;boss, in the field;AND, LIKEWISE:, IF YOU'RE TREATED LIKE A bottom or masochist ,ON THE JOB ; PUSHED AROUND, IN A DEMANDING TOP-JOB ,YOU REALLY WANT ,TO SHAKE SOMEONE UP IN BED ,AND BE A 'TOP' ;INTIMATELY SPEAKING.(OPPOSITS;JOB VS . WHAT YOU ARE IN BED.)
some, in the artists biz have universal aesthetics, and, that makes them number one ,ADD the talent ,and, that takes a pure slave ,almost blended- gendered ,or main stream person,to accomplish the thing ,that is ,so in demand, to the masses.YOU HAVE TO BE PERFECT ,TO EVERYONE; AESTETICALLY; HENCE: "THE  SLAVE"- VARIABLE.
i'm ,not a switch and ,i GRAVITATED , to be the top; number one; star ;singer ;and dramatic star; in the universe; BEST, IN THE FIELD;and, i accomplished it ;being a slave ;all the way; but, the results were a disaster! ;and, if you're the, ms., aileen G----, you know how much of a disaster it is....
i used a slave economy ;almost died sometimes ,in marathons and , MAKING rolls of pure new ORIGINAL songs ;USED EVERY PIECE OF HEART-ACHE AND DEVOTION I HAD ,TILL I ALMOST GOT A HEART ATTACK(did that song too ;don't ask) ,BY BECOMMING way, TOO WEARY; KILLING MYSELF ,IN SOME DRAMATIC SONG- PERFORMANCES;LIKE PurPLE RAIN(DID ,THAT BUNCH OF SONGS TOO ,AND ,GOT RIPPED, AND, PLAGIARIZED); all #1. ,  IN A ROW;CONSISTANTLY OVER 3+
CONSEQUTIVE DECADES; a monopoly of all my songs almost ;more than presley made in his whole career!
ALL slave bottom lyrics ,too ;what else!?;up to today they still recycle unused stuff i did verbatim ;still making millions; all ripped off; ask mr.' em and em' ,the slob thug ,otta' know.....
SOME lyrics i composed while singing ;I CHANGED PURPOSEFULLY ;CAUSE ,THEY WERE ,SO SLAVISH; DEVIANT;i had, to change them to be heard ,without embarrassment ,and, make them , INTO MORE MAINSTREAM LYRICS ;
I GENEROUSLY SUPPLIED universally appealing; MEGA -HITS; years on end;put up with the bull.s.,and, DID ,SO, WITH EVERY PHILOSOPHY ,OF SCIENCE ,AND, EXPERIENCE I HAD ,by principal;
DELIBERATELY ;
totally -MASOCHISTICALLY;EVERYTHING i TURNED OUT was  universally sucessful ;LEGENDARY,AND ,altho i was headstrong ,and ,a devoted 1000% 'BOTTOM OF BOTTOMS'unbendable  SERIOUS slave;ultimately it cost me blood, up to my ears!,
so:absolutely  yes; i guess you can ,almost tell what a top ,or bottom will do to a profession ,and, if they will be sucessful,at  being who they are....which as a general  rule is the total opposit ,IN the bedroom! 
i'm ridgid ,and, a no flex; no change ;no switch diehard-slave ;and, i expect the same, from my intimacies;or don't waste my time;i can't function ,unless its work ;any other way.... 
i don't want a bottom one minute; sliming shoes; and ,dominated by men everyplace ;to be ,over me ;cause, they won't have my service, or respect,THATS, NOT THE WORLD I WANT, TO PERPETUATE, ESP., FOR "WOMIN";
so the womin i had ,as "tops" ;WHILE slaving my way up ,to be THE- number one ,FOR THE NUMBER ONE 'BEST TOPS' I HAD IN MIND; were, ALSO ;VERY ridgid; tops;
with similar goals,
and, THEIR careers ,and, who they were ,BEFORE they were almost all KILLED ;were absolutely predictable
;ie: some WORLD leaders ;royalty;strong women ;independant and ,unconventional;some equivalent to matyrs(i hate that too) and ,saints;COMPANY LEADERS ;AMBITUOUS BUSINESS WOMIN ;DIGNIFIED; TOP; DOMINANT;  WOMIN ;OF STRONG CONSTITUTION ;WHO COULD CHANGE THE WORLD;  AND CREME ON DOING SO....;so dedicated and sacrificial not unlike the slandered but innocent ms. christa gail pike,on death row;nashville, tn. 
there were wars raged against them ;some stood alone ;altruistic;affluent;or,not ;never dominated, by men ;and, if you want the true list ,of who; and ,what THESE "TOPS"  were ;IN EVERYDAY LIFE;it's, in blogs; someplace ;names ;and all; ....
my mom was a 'top' ;TO ME; and, a leader, in dress ;profession ;MANNER;INTELLIGENCE;and personality ;BUT ,my "slavery", to be number one ;AND ,MAKE ALL THE FAME; FORTUNE ,AND BEST SONGS IN THE WORLD ,FOR MY TOP,INSPIRATIONS ;OR,FOR  EVERYONE CLOSE TO ME ;THAT I WORSHIPED;
....cost me HER(MOMS' LIFE) life,TOO,
so....
 does the N'th degree mean anything to answer your question?
I REMAIN -YOURS FOREVER- ,GDDS.,AILEEN G .,[&o] ,if you're not aleen g. same respects; i remain yours truly.

< Message edited by jamesthehumanrug -- 7/2/2006 6:01:36 PM >

_____________________________

I REMAIN RESPECTFULLY SUBMITTED
,LOVEles,
jamesthehumanrug






LTRsubNW -> RE: Jobs (7/2/2006 7:27:20 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: jamesthehumanrug
< Message edited by jamesthehumanrug -- 7/2/2006 6:01:36 PM >


Thank goodness he edited it...now it makes MUCH more sense!




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