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RE: Lack of sincerity/excuses - 4/29/2007 3:38:23 PM

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no response to 4 or 5 different doms with dif approaches=not really looking

holy moly, gents: from that you get that she's not really looking? yikes. could be that no matter the approach, she didn't think it would work, which is her right.

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RE: Lack of sincerity/excuses - 4/29/2007 3:39:33 PM

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Boy for one who said he was not bitching, you sure have done alot of bitching.

If they did not answer you, then its obvious that they are not interested in YOU. If they did not answer your friends, then its obvious that they are not interested in THEM.

Geesh, getting upset over something like this really does alot to show us what kind of a person you are.

Get a grip already

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RE: Lack of sincerity/excuses - 4/29/2007 3:45:47 PM

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Hmmm, so are the subs that don't reply just not interested in ANYONE? lol, but don't worry, I'm done bitchin, only time I'll message a sub now is just to say hello or in response to a message from her, sure not going to ask if they're interested, already learned my lesson there.... and as far as what kind of person I am, not perfect but I'm a nice guy, oh wait, there's my problem right there, TOO nice, guess I'll have to work on being a jerk :)

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RE: Lack of sincerity/excuses - 4/29/2007 3:59:23 PM

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thats a good boy; now run along and play nicely

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RE: Lack of sincerity/excuses - 4/29/2007 4:03:37 PM

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I haven't been bothered to check most of the posts here so this may have been said before !! Just because the ladies or whatever are submissive, does not mean they are submissive to YOU. Until you earn their respect and trust, consider them as HUMAN BEINGS !! and as Humans, have a choice whether to answer or not WITHOUT reason. I know it's annoying, as I've posted and got no reply also, that's got NOTHING to do with being submissive or not, it's about human choice, while I may agree it's "Bad manners" it happens so live with it.

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RE: Lack of sincerity/excuses - 4/29/2007 4:32:28 PM

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Mellow Sir,
Not recieving an answer is an answer. They are not interested in you..for whatever reason. Just because someone puts an ad on here does not mean they are obligated to respond to everyone who writes to them. Its the same things when i get phone solicitations. Just because I have a telephone...that may even be listed in the phone book, does not obligate me to answer the phone. I will look at the number and decide if i wish to talk to that person or not. I am often amazed how often we get these threads calling people who don't respond as "fakes". The bottom line, is just aren't that into you. They don't owe you an explanantion. That is my humble opinion.
Thanks and have a great day.
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RE: Lack of sincerity/excuses - 4/29/2007 4:49:13 PM

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These cunts out here are horrible. I take the time to paste a sincere letter of introduction and sometimes I even "tweak" it a bit to show how attentive I am to what they have to say...Like if they have cats....I also inform them of their unknown love of anal....And just go from there....But let me tell you, it does get my goat when these subs won't even respond back after I have poured out my heart and soul to them...Geeeez! Some people!!!

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RE: Lack of sincerity/excuses - 4/29/2007 4:54:03 PM

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I actually think it is the misspelling in the base document, now I know you told me that this was a sure getter of women---well I paid my 19.95 but I should have run it thru spell check--- the on your nees part, bad gamboo--- when I asked you why we aren't gonna spell it knees---you said that such flaws would make us appear vulnerable, and human in their minds- well, I think you are wrong and I want my 19.95 back.

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RE: Lack of sincerity/excuses - 4/29/2007 4:54:09 PM

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C'mon, missy, it is classless and impolite NOT to respond to someone who sent you a letter of introduction. It is just a question of manners (which we are in desperate need of). A polite one sentence note saying "Thank you but I have other prospects I'm pursuing." is perfectly fine.

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RE: Lack of sincerity/excuses - 4/29/2007 5:06:12 PM

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C'mon, missy, it is classless and impolite NOT to respond to someone who sent you a letter of introduction. It is just a question of manners (which we are in desperate need of). A polite one sentence note saying "Thank you but I have other prospects I'm pursuing." is perfectly fine.

Maybe in your little corner of fantasy land, but here in the real world, things run a bit differently

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RE: Lack of sincerity/excuses - 4/29/2007 5:14:21 PM

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I actually think it is the misspelling in the base document, now I know you told me that this was a sure getter of women---well I paid my 19.95 but I should have run it thru spell check--- the on your nees part, bad gamboo--- when I asked you why we aren't gonna spell it knees---you said that such flaws would make us appear vulnerable, and human in their minds- well, I think you are wrong and I want my 19.95 back.

Ron

Well you were in such a fucking rush that I forwarded "subonknees 6.0" without getting all of the bugs out....O.K this takes a little work but try and remove most of the grammatical errors Not all...We don't want to appear so superior to be considered beyond their grasps and dreams....I also might suggest removing the part about having a "comb over" after testing several hundred groups of random subs this was miraculously to be found not an appealing trait.

Good luck in your hunt Killer!!!

Also...If you read the instruction manual once again clearly at the top it states...."NO REFUNDS MOTHERFUCKER".

You get nothing but a life time of subs to wear out....I have also included a dvd in the new "Subonknees 6.0" which explains how to flog utilizing a "perfectly developed" form which will lessen the damage to the rotator cuff...Invaluable...Would be willing to forward for the cost of postage and handling.

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RE: Lack of sincerity/excuses - 4/29/2007 5:14:40 PM

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Nope...manners are manners and if you don't have them, that's your problem. I get messages from people and I return every one of them. I get messages from guys (shudder) on occasion and I say something very similar to what I wrote for missy. "Thanks but that's not me, take care and good luck in your search." Wow...wasn't that tough? No...it wasn't tough but it was polite. I get a number of people e mailing me from the posts as well....and I return every one.

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RE: Lack of sincerity/excuses - 4/29/2007 5:23:29 PM

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LMFAO

domiguy and ron; ya'll are killing me here

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RE: Lack of sincerity/excuses - 4/29/2007 5:30:06 PM

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it is classless and impolite NOT to respond to someone who sent you a letter of introduction.

Do you understand the type of mail we receive? Here's some examples:

"hi"
"where do you live"
"yummy"

Why would anyone respond to that sort of nonsense?

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RE: Lack of sincerity/excuses - 4/29/2007 5:37:52 PM

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"Thank you but I have other prospects I'm pursuing."

I didn't say address the foolishness of the introduction. Obviously, they are introducing themselves because they want to be with you. Well...you CAN'T be with them because you have other prospects you are pursuing, right? One sentence repeated over and over to the endless line of dip shits that e mail you until someone with some potential comes along.

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RE: Lack of sincerity/excuses - 4/29/2007 5:39:13 PM

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No, I can't be bothered by an idiot who thinks those sort of comments are any way to get to know me.

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RE: Lack of sincerity/excuses - 4/29/2007 5:48:12 PM

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"Thank you but I have other prospects I'm pursuing."

I didn't say address the foolishness of the introduction. Obviously, they are introducing themselves because they want to be with you. Well...you CAN'T be with them because you have other prospects you are pursuing, right? One sentence repeated over and over to the endless line of dip shits that e mail you until someone with some potential comes along.

Wow *some one* sounds a little bitter. I've tried the whole, 'thanks but no thanks' and the guys (yes more then one) have replied by trying to get into a conversation/arguement about why I don't want them. To make it worse, a general letter of introduction can be spotted from miles away. It is my priority as to who I will and will not reply to.

I've had people not respond and it doesn't get my goat. I've learned that if I make a comment about their post or profile that is witty they are more likely to reply then if I send them a general hello.

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RE: Lack of sincerity/excuses - 4/29/2007 5:48:36 PM

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suite yourself. I gave you a very valid and very easy way to address it. *sigh* Look, when you write a clearly written sentence of polite rebuke, some guys will learn from it and improve their form. Other's won't. Regardless of that, for me it is an issue of being polite and saying "Thanks but no thanks." Hey, that doesn't sound half bad, you could say that too. I feel like I'm being rude if I don't respond, even if only curtly. Maybe you don't feel that way.

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RE: Lack of sincerity/excuses - 4/29/2007 5:50:40 PM

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I've always been courteous when messaging a sub. I think that many women, in particular, tend to lump all men together into a stereotype, thinking we're all out just to get laid, therefore don't answer even those that aren't.....hell I don't know lol, I'm surprised the thread even made it to four pages, I expected to be shot down rather quickly with all the reasons NOT to answer lol. How about some help and tell me what does get an answer lol

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RE: Lack of sincerity/excuses - 4/29/2007 5:55:58 PM

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I'll 'fess up. I'm one of those who won't always respond to a message. Might be my mood that day. Might be an unsavory vibe I got from the sender. Might be that the email screams "do me!" or "It will be obvious that I copied and pasted this" or even "meh, didn't really feel like glancing through your profile--it was too long. But I'm bored and I like your pic". Might be that my connection is slow that day and I don't get back around to replying later on like I had a vague notion of doing.

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